OMG! well, there is this guy and he is in my class and i love him. He just broke up with me to go out with someoen who is way younger them him! i am talking a whole grade! so now i am so sad! depressed! i never show it though becuase then he will think i am crazy! and now all he ever thinks of me as is like nothing. i will say somethign and he will give me and eye or attitude or he will do somethign werid! what do i do?? i really do love him and i really want him back! what do i do to get him back???????? plz help me!!!
2007-03-27 12:06:18 · 18 answers · asked by Mandy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First - stop and listen to what you are saying!!! Love - how can you love when all you are really talking about are pure emotions of anger, hurt, and fear of being alone. It's never fun being let down from any relationship, or friendship. It is hard, but why make a fool of yourself in front of everyone else, and blow the chance at the possibility that there may be a guy who has been wanting to have a chance at a relationship with you who is really a nice guy. Any guy who "dumps" a girl for another one just like that is not worth the time of day.
You are a princess, God's little princess, start acting the way you are supposed to be. A unique creation, a worthwhile person who has talents and gifts and abilities that the right person will appreciate. Trying to get this guy back now, will only cause you grief, because you may compromise and do things you would never do otherwise, plus you will always wonder if he is looking at other girls when you are not together, he will feel pressured, you two will argue, and you will break up anyway. Why waste your energy going through all that?
Let him go, hold you head up high, dress pretty, be nice to everyone, be thankful that you are not stuck with some loser who doesn't value you or relationship. There is someone - just don't go looking for him, when the time is right, he will appear. Always does, always will, if you wait! Hope you will consider what I shared with you and be smart!
2007-03-27 12:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by galfromcal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG you aren't going back to that loser.You need acceptance because he broke up with you to go out with another girl so oh my god guess what you can have him back,thats easy,but when he jerks you around again and breaks your little heart for another little hottie when you thought you were the one and only whats that gonna do for your self esteem?Are you prepared for and think he is worthy of you feeling worse then you already do say 5 times as bad if it happens again.Sorry but guys come a dime a dozen.Don't be desperate in your actions you will attract jerks like this all the time.You have the power,your the woman you call the shots end of story.Unless you want to play the role of the little submissive sheepish damsel in distress and sweetie thats not attractive.Good luck honey.
2007-03-27 12:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by FYIIM1KO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,that is one thing you cannot do is force someone to come back to you,or to be with you.You will have many of broken hearts before you reach adulthood,and you learn more with each one.Break ups are never fun for anyone,but the reality is they happen,and they happen often.He has obviously moved on,so you should get over him first.Do not jump into a rebound relationship,they never work as you are just looking to fill that void that you were left with when he broke up with you.Then,start dating once more.Dont waste your life waiting on someone,who obviously treats you poorly from the sounds of it anyway.Time will heal the wound and over time you will finally face the fact that you can move on,and you will move on.Good luck hun,and have a good evening!
2007-03-27 12:13:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come to school looking really cute, put on a smile, and completely ignore him. Flirt with some other boys in the class right in front of him and trust me he will go crazy. Act like you don't care about him anymore because most guys like what they can't have so if it seems like he can't have you, he will want you.
2007-03-27 12:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry Sweetheart, but there is nothing you can do to get him back. He has moved on, and you should do the same. I won't speculate on what you feel for him is truly love, but I think that relationships in junior high and high school are fickle and fleeting generally, and it was time for this one to end. Why would you want someone who treats you the way he has recently anyway?
Go in your room, cry, look at pictures, and allow yourself to be sad, but you will get over him, and you'll be fine.
P.S.- JN, you've watched "Crybaby" one too many times! LOL, at least you didn't tell her to drink it.
2007-03-27 12:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry but you truthfully need to get over him and move on. The more interest you show or the more you try and get him back the less likely you are to get him back.
However, you can make him jealous by not giving him as much attention as you used to and flirting with new guys in front of him. you will make him jealous & begin getting over him, trust me, there's plenty of fish in the sea
2007-03-27 12:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by JV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so i absolutley understand..i had the same issue and now im married to the guy! haha! ok so give him some time and yea i know you may feel like youve waited FOREVER bt you know what if he truley loves you hell come back they always do. My husband and i have issues that were created before we got married so i suggest you clear all unresolved issues before you hook back up for future purposes trust me cuz theyll bite u in the butt later..but basically give him some time and let him be a butthead hell realize theres no one better than you.
2007-03-27 12:15:33 · answer #7 · answered by alwaysroyal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to date around. If he felt the way you do about you he wouldnt have left you for someone else. you cant be so attached to him because he will see that as a weakness and even if he gets back with you he can see he will be able to do it again and that you will keep taking him back and back everytime. you just need to move on. it doesnt mean that you have to stop having that love for him but if he's acting this way towards you i don't think that its worth it.
2007-03-27 12:12:08 · answer #8 · answered by [(Ladiie Karma)] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not waste my time sweetie.... if he left you for someone else then you are not the top girl in his life...do not chase after anyone because you will only hurt yourself. Look at your relationship like a learning experience and move on to better things. This guy is not the only one you know...
2007-03-27 12:11:36 · answer #9 · answered by LindaLoveLee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over him. i am about 6 years out of high school and believe me honey right now you think that your life is going to end but it is not.. you can prob do much better. enjoy life because right now you feel like dying but listen find you a new one date for a couple of weeks and you will feel much better.. i promise. the only way to get over someone is to replace them.
2007-03-27 12:12:55 · answer #10 · answered by lil mama 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋