i cnt talk to anyone with out him getting mad or i have to sneak and i liked him ever since i was 3 same with him and we have been going out for a year and like a month and he gets sooooo jelous and i dont no wat to do cuz i really love him and want to b with him forever but i cnt handle this anymore and i kkinda have the same problem but not as bad what should i do??? i mean im only 12
2007-03-27 11:51:56 · 15 answers · asked by mini 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and he always gives me the 3rd degree
2007-03-27 11:56:04 · update #1
he sez if i leav him he will die so he is presuring me cuz i dnt want him to die
2007-03-27 12:00:16 · update #2
don't get mad that's showing he loves you i have expirence so talk to him let him know whatyou think and i hope u guys have a good relationship
2007-03-27 11:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by songbird12 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think your problem is that you are not living a normal 12 year old girl life... this is your time to start to know different people, to go out to the movies with your friends, to have an ice cream at the mall, to have parties ...etc...not to have a FORMAL relationship with somebody!... I think your rushing yourself too much and U both should breakup, so U can get to know your own you; if you are made to be one for the other, this relationship will start again in the future, but with another perspective and when you are both more mature, but right now I think you are hurting yourselves...
2007-03-27 19:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by staytrue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
>i really love him and want to b with him forever ... im only 12
There's your problem right there. 12 year is just plain too young for you to really be sure who you want to be with for the rest of your life. I would strongly suggest getting out of this and waiting until you're more like 18 or so. It may sound to you like I'm being totally insensitive, but facts are facts and there's a good chance going on the way you have will only make you unhappy.
2007-03-27 18:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW! You said it, YOU ARE ONLY 12. Someone your age does not need these type of problems. Enjoy being young, and focus on your education. Life only gets more difficult!
I went through this and I had a difficult time dealing with a jealous, insecure boyfriend. He was constantly harrassing me and my family. I finally got a restraining order. The difference between you and me? I was 19!!!!!!!
2007-03-27 18:59:35 · answer #4 · answered by ilovethe90s 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get out while the getting out is good! No matter what age a girl is she should never be subjected to mental or physical abuse. It doesn't get better...it gets worse. I once heard a wise lady speaking of jealous love and say , "You can take that kind of love and throw it in a bucket! I don't need it."
2007-03-27 18:56:44 · answer #5 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're only 12... you shouldn't be having jealousy problems at that age!!
you should have fun with boys.. not serious stuff like that yet. Just harmless fun, going to play and do fun things.
Tell your boy that you guys can hang out and be friends but that you can't be tied to one person yet, since you are both so young!
2007-03-27 18:56:54 · answer #6 · answered by helloworld 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will have a lot of relationships in your life. it only seems like you want to be with him forever, but at 12 years old, you have nothing to base that decision on. you won't know good if you don't experience bad. you won't know what sweet is if you never experience sour. it's way too early to be forming serious relationships at 12....
2007-03-27 18:58:38 · answer #7 · answered by billyjoemikey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should grow up...
12??? c'mon!!! Isn't there something else you could be doing with your time??? What is he jealous of??? are you passing notes to someone else??? I think you should tell him that you guys make better friends...and just be friends...in ten years you will laugh at this question...
2007-03-27 18:58:59 · answer #8 · answered by Dave B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweety RUN..RUN FOR THE HILLS....that boy has got to grow up...girls or women, are not property, they should love you because they love you and you love them back...anyone who has that kind of anxiety about love doesnt deserve it yet! if you leave, you might teach him the lesson of a lifetime, and save yourself from the wrath of an oddly jealous man!
2007-03-27 18:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by boosted 1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mini, tell your boyfriend that you do not like when he gets jealous. I think that he is trying to control you and is afraid of losing you. i think that you should dump him and move on to someone who will treat you better
2007-03-27 18:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by danicolegirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋