I've been chatting with my old fling for a few days now. He's involved with someone and so am I, except he doesn't know we stay together. We've been constantly chatting about our past and how good it was. I don't want to be with the person i'm involved with now. I asked my old fling does he have feelings for the girl he's involved with, he said yeah, but she's just cool. What should I do about this situation. He's everything I been looking for, was just too blind by the "bad boy type" in the past.
2007-03-27 11:50:47 · 9 answers · asked by I AM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him exactly what you said in the question:
"He's everything I been looking for, was just too blind by the "bad boy type" in the past."
You have nothing to lose and everything to gain! You should just be honest about the way you feel, cos if he is what you want you should go for it. Life is too short!!!
2007-03-27 11:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by Kat ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is like a movie or sumthing. Hm I would probably tell him that I still had feelings for him. And If I wasn't happy in the realtionship I am currently in then I wold break up with him regardless of the "old friend"
2007-03-27 19:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by HSMluver4EVA!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love the person your with right now, you should just let go. Maybe your ex just reminded you of something you like in a mate. It doesn't necessarily mean that your gonna get back with your ex, just means you need to find someone like him. Maybe he has a friend just like him or something, or maybe you need to be single for a little to find mr right. Don't worry you'll find him and when you do, you'll be supper happy.
Good Luck!:)
2007-03-27 18:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by Nummy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE A BREAK WITH THE GUY YOUR WITH NOW, SEE HOW YOU FEEL AFTER YOU DO SO. YOU MIGHT HAVE A CHANGE OF HEART. PLEASE LET THE GUY YOUR WITH NOW KNOW HOW YOU FEEL, BE HONEST. I'M SURE YOU KNOW WHAT THE RIGHT THING TO DO IS BUT YES IT IS HARD TO BE COMPLETELY HONEST, BUT IT'S NOT FAIR TO THIS RELATIONSHIP TO HOLD BACK THESE IMPORTANT FEELINGS.
DON'T GET STUCK IN A RELATIONSHIP YOUR NOT HAPPY IN, TRUST ME THE LONGER YOU WAIT THE LONGER YOUR GOING TO BE STUCK IN THE RELATIONSHIP AND YOUR ONLY GOING TO HURT THIS GUY EVEN MORE.
DON'T JUST LEAVE HIM BECAUSE OF THE OTHER GUY THOW, LEAVE HIM BECAUSE IT'S SEEMS YOUR FEELINGS FOR HIM HAVE CHANGED. HE WILL BE UPSET BUT IN THE LONG RUN HE WILL APPRECIATE YOUR HONESTY.
HOPE THINGS GO WELL KEEP ME
UPDATED, LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU DESIDE............
GOOD LUCK TO YOU
2007-03-27 19:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by kkaatt2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isnt this your answer for another questioner? I would heed your own advice and take this advice too.. If he's cheatin with ya he'll cheat on ya!!
Yes it's easier to forgive than to forget, just don't be too forgivin as in giving another chance after another. If he/she apologized and asks for your forgiveness, he/she should mean from the heart. Things happen...bottom line is yea if you have it in your heart to forgive, then forgive, just don't be too forgiving. You might find yourself asking why did i forgive him/her or even blaming yourself for being so forgiving.
2007-03-27 18:59:37 · answer #5 · answered by SHORTY38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him who he wants you or that other girl. if he says you, go with him. if he says the other girl, stay with the person you're involved with.
2007-03-27 18:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by Candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man o man you did blow that one. now that he knows that you may still want him. that's cool. now give it a Little more time. to come back to you
2007-03-27 18:57:29 · answer #7 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel. exactly what you just said. good luck
2007-03-27 18:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u can figure this out on ur own. folow ur heart?
2007-03-27 18:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by question man 911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋