Well, I can tell my girlfriend doesn't fully trust me with her heart, everytime I'm upset she's worried that i'm going to dump her... How can I make her realize thats the last thing on this earth I want. She's what I live for, she's what makes my heart skip a beat... I've told her these things time and time again.. Heres the problem, she's had 3 step fathers and all 3 of them have molested her and everyone in her life abandons her, while at the same time her sisters tell her everyday how fat and ugly she is. There's nothing I want more than to live the rest of my life with her, but she won't accept my love. What can I do to prove I love her and won't abandon her. [I've been going out with her for 9 months and 7 day]
2007-03-27 11:50:16 · 6 answers · asked by offspring_fan123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give her lots of hugs, kissed, compliments her and tell her how beautiful she is, give her flowers of gifts once in a while, show her that you realy love her!
2007-03-27 12:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
molestation is more and more common now a days and coming out more and more and when a family member does someone like that then its really hard to trust a man in your life......and with family always treating you like garbage you are soon to believe that is all you are....maybe a nice getaway vacation romantic getaway from everyone.....take and plan a really romantic weekend for two you and her and make it really special work it around yours and her schedule and take her far away and make it like a fairy tale something she will never forget and tell her the whole time that she is the one and talk to her and tell her that people that belittle someone have to be little themselves because they have no life and or are jealous of what she has and that is a good man in her life just hang in there it will take time and lots and lots of love i still doubt my man and we have been together for nine years but i couldnt ask for any better of a man to put up with what he does from me due to my abuse from father.....
2007-03-27 12:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by att_i_tude2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She learns from what shes been through. Actions speak louder then words. Give her plenty of hugs and kisses just because. An ocassional " I always be here for you " wont hurt either.
2007-03-27 11:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all that is so sweet that you care about her so much, if you want to tell her you love her buy her a card and flowers, if you dont know her favortie kind of flowers buy her roses, if a dozen is to expensive buy her a single long-stemmed one the card you get her should say something meaningful and from the heart, i send my best wishes to you and her
2007-03-27 12:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by Zu-Zu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO PROVE THAT YOU LOVE HER NOT BY WORDS BUT BY ACTIONS AND YOU MUST PROVE TOO THAT SHE IS A pretty girl than her sisters say
2007-03-27 12:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by MOTO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her out on a REALLY romantic date and go for like a walk in the park and talk to her A LOT FOR A LONG TIME about it....if she still doesn't get it....i dont no wat to tell u........
2007-03-27 12:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋