I see my bf in the mornings for a couple minutes and then afternoon for literally a couple minutes. i usually call him about 3 30 for only a couple minutes and call him later around 9 to talk on the phone. I want to see and spend time with him at least twice a week but it isnt working. he'll make plans with me and then cancel cuz hes made plans with friends, i don't mean to be selfish but he does see his friends and hangs out with them everyday for at least three hours, he spends about two hours everyday lifting and just to have time to his self, which i think is great and encourage. but still i want to be in his schedule somewhere...am i asking to much, do i not need to call him at night to talk-would that irritate you if a girl did that, he never complains about it or acts like he doesnt want to talk but that dont mean anything...am i asking to much of him to give me more time??
2007-03-27 11:46:40 · 16 answers · asked by lowesjj48gal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
could be he only wants to be seen with you to give people the impression that he has a girlfriend
on the other hand, why are you so set on having a "boyfriend". Obviously it's not doing much for you except causing drama that you don't need. Study hard, get good marks, concentrate on yourself and do well with your intended career.... wait til you're settled and supporting yourself, THEN look at getting a boyfriend.
What's the hurry?
2007-03-27 11:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always stuck by the idea that it is important to set time aside to spend together just the two of you and if a man or woman can not make the time , then you shouldn't waste your time. If you r truly important to him then there is no reason that at the least one day a week cant be set aside to be together. If u don't have u time there is nothing to built your relationship on. It sounds like it is more important for him to have his friend time. Why dont you not call him and see if he is interested in calling u.
2007-03-27 11:56:20 · answer #2 · answered by c_schreel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not too much to ask every girl needs some attention.I understand that he still needs time for himself and friends but he should be spending more time with you.If he is serious about you he'll probably cancel the plans with his friends so he can spend more time with you.May be you can talk to him and explain how you feel.If he was really a true bf he'll understand.Good luck and i hope that helps.
2007-03-27 11:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay he isnt right for u and u r not asking much of him. he spends time for himself is great but when he schedule with his friends and leaving u is not right. its seems he is not spending time with u if he love u and cares about u alot than he should alway have time to spend with u and do something together. maybe u should talk to him and tell him about this and y he is not doing whats right as a boyfriend
2007-03-27 11:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would inquire about how far he wants to go with the relationship, and if It's far then you need to inform him that you would like to see him more and that as a part of his life, be included in more of his free time. Tell him you don't want to smother him, but your feeling lonely and would like him to feel that void.( Or you could find someone else, but I'm sure he wouldn't like that!)
2007-03-27 11:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by mahoganay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are asking just the appropriate. However, it seems like he don't like you. He might definetely be cheating on you secretely and lies to you that he is going to hang out with friends when it is the total opposite you feel me? Dump him. It aint worth the drama for him. Boys have to learn someday.
2007-03-27 11:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by d8jk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he feels that you are fine with what you guys are doing now, and that if you wanted it to be different that you would have said something by now. guys are dense!! just ask him why he doesnt make time for you always, or ask if he cares that you only see him once a week when he really does have time to see you more.
2007-03-27 11:52:12 · answer #7 · answered by girly-girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly maximum adult males %. up on stuff like that so i think of u have been given the clever section incorrect. in any case ask a chum to inform him. thats what all the girls at my college do. yet after ur pal tells him u might desire to make the frist circulate. if u dont communicate over with him he will think of u arnt committed to an entire courting.
2016-10-20 13:40:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not asking too much.
When you're in a relationship, you should always have that person in front of all of the plans and schedules.
You don't hate the fact that he's with his friends or that he's lifting,but it's because you're not in front(first) of his plans and that's probably bothering you.
You should be first.Then comes friends,etc.
Talk to him.
2007-03-27 11:57:40 · answer #9 · answered by najimmya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jee,he's really trying to be your bf.I would say by-by.Your definatly not on his priority list.Yea,he wants you to call for attention to him.Not much of a friend or bf if you ask me.
2007-03-27 11:56:51 · answer #10 · answered by gotabedifferent 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋