im 13 and my friend happend to finger a guy and its disgusting and everyone noes and im ashamed to be her friend but how can i stop the rumors!!!!Thanks for all answers!
2007-03-27 11:40:14 · 25 answers · asked by soccerstar310102 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you slept with that guy then there wouldn't be as much attention on you
Ronals
2007-03-27 11:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by JuliusRomans 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are a good friend. I think it is nice of you to want to stop the rumors. What you should probably do is just when you hear people talking about her, just stand up for her. And, tell them that it's really none of their business it is between her & the guy.
Good luck! I hope everything works out! :-D
2007-03-27 18:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by meganxrenee07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way to stop the rumors. Someone else will do something, and they'll start talking about them...the rumors will pass eventually. Just be a friend to your friend - it sounds like she needs a friend. If you had someone spreading rumors about you, wouldn't you like to have a friend to depend on and trust? Don't treat her like the others do; be her friend.
2007-03-27 18:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by Faith P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe I should not be here my dear.You have a long life a head of you.encourage your friend to keep such thing to her self, and not to talk to others about it. If the Guy tells the story, Dennie it ever happened and tell every one that is disgusting and you would never do that.As for your friend! stay her Friend, We all need a close friend to share our deepest darkest secrets to.Remember you can't have a louse tong.Roomers will fade over time.
2007-03-27 19:04:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off your high horse and stop acting as though you have the rule book of life in your hip pocket. There could be a dozen reasons your friend allowed this to happen and not one of them was to shame you. Think of her instead of yourself and then you can be considered a real friend
2007-03-27 18:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally think that you should talk to her about it. Try to get the total story. honey everyone is going to talk that's just how it goes but you should get the true story before you come across a rumor and dont have the story.
2007-03-27 18:44:38 · answer #6 · answered by [(Ladiie Karma)] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...... Just don't listen to everyone else if you and her enjoy each other company. don't really care what other people think. don't care what other people think because you will care about a lot of things that don't matter adn you no that it won't effect how you think or how you see your friend!!!
2007-03-27 18:49:19 · answer #7 · answered by Abby61295 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it. It's not a rumor if it really happened. hey, there really isn't anything wrong with it if that's what they both wanted to do.
2007-03-27 18:43:14 · answer #8 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't stop the rumors. just be her friend. she needs someone to talk to i bet. and just be nice to her. you were her friend before so you should be her friend now.
2007-03-27 18:43:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it, and tell her how you feel, tell her if she wants to do that , to do it when you are not with her. and for those other people passing rumors, ignore them, and don't let it bother you. good luck.
2007-03-27 18:45:08 · answer #10 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be like shes my friend and everyone makes mistakes and some we regreat and some we like and she made one but dont we all and tell them to stop and that shes your friend no matter what
2007-03-27 18:44:47 · answer #11 · answered by lovxux4ever1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋