Ive been myself everyday for about 18 years now...And ive never ever had a g/f before..
I Feel i have a decent personality cause i feel that i can make good friends easily with any guy.
But Its not the other way around with women.
Being a Smart,Funny, nice guy clearly just isnt working.
So i try to be a jerk. and that doesnt work etheir
You People(women) tell me "ooh just be yourself"
c'mon now who are you trying to kid you all know you love that Badass dude with the criminal record that cant spell his own name.
How does being yourself work exactly?
2007-03-27 11:39:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off,you sound like a wounderful guy,someone I would love too meet,but you trying to be someone your not,not only that but a jerk is the wrong thing to do cuase girls like begin treat special and wanted.You acting like a jerk is a big turn off.There are some girls out there who like jerks but most of them want a great guy,like you!THE REAL YOU.So I would have to say please be youself losing another great guy is a big lost for woman like me....Begin the guys you describe yourself to be is a great thing.Don't let some dumass girls who are to blind to see a great guy ruin you of that -k- ......Bye the way call me lol ;)
2007-03-27 12:06:31 · answer #1 · answered by Hopeless In Texas 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The answer is not necessarily "easy", but it is simple: Being yourself doesn't always get you girls, but it will eventually get you the RIGHT girl. If a girl isn't into who you are, then it's not gonna last anyway. Just know that when you do get a girl, it will be one who really likes you for you. Also, be very aware of how you act around girls, are you maybe trying TOO hard, or coming on too strong? Maybe you're not really being yourself because you're too afraid to be and that's no good either.
2007-03-27 18:50:56 · answer #2 · answered by hunnyb1220 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key is not just being yourself. It's being CONFIDENT in yourself. Be outgoing. Say hi (preferably not in the form of a line). Do things that you like where there are lots of people and women will be drawn to you. (i.e. if you like working out, go to a club and work out, if you like dancing, join a dance class, etc.) I'm not saying run out right now and buy a gym membership, I'm just saying. If you do something that you're good at, your confidence radiates and the real you is outwardly attractive.
Women don't go around with "personality detectors."
2007-03-27 18:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all girls like the "bad boys". maybe most do where you live, but still. girls dont like to get fooled, for example a guy not being themselves. thats why they say 2 b urselves, so they can get 2 know u for who u REALLY r. and sooner or later, uf ur faking, they are gonna find out, evn if ur a pretty good actor. sum girls judge just on looks, which isnt really right. they shuld b looking on whts inside, AS WELL as how they look on the outside. if u have a good personality, theres bound to be somebody thats just right 4 u. u just have 2 wait.... i hope that atleast clears things up a LITTLE bit. hope i helped.
2007-03-27 18:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by Bekah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like men who are down to earth...You acting like a jerk isn't helping your quest for a girlfriend...Do you approach the girls? Do you smile? Do you show the girls that you HAVE a winning personality? It sure doesn't sound like it. You have to work on your entire demeanor. Women DO NOT LIKE men with a criminal record despite what you think. We love men who are intelligent, compassionate, and caring. Live and learn.
2007-03-27 18:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If girls don't like you for you,, then they're liking you for somebody your not. Why indulge in such a fraud? Why put yourself through acting and trying to be someone your not? If girls like that, they aren't worth it. Yourself is what should be acceptable in any given situation,. Boys, girls, w/e. Let them like you for you and if they don't, show them the door. They can go out and find that "boy" they're looking for and somebody else will come along who in turn will like you for YOU. Don't change for anybody. Its just not worth it.
2007-03-27 18:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by tekno_rockstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does... Sort of. Not everything goes your way. You're going to have to find sombody and try to get them. You can't expect girls just to come after you(Even though you sound like a pretty nice guy). I hope this helped...
2007-03-27 18:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by Hinata 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do more then just be yourself. you need to have self confidence. if you like yourself then girls will like you.
(I hate the bad boy guys and love the cute guys that are smart, funny, and nice).
2007-03-27 18:44:51 · answer #8 · answered by Arya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't, if you're so good with making guy friends, get a friend that is good at getting girls... Watch him, allow him to teach you exactly how to be a dick to women and make them all want you...
2007-03-27 18:44:01 · answer #9 · answered by Yates M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing beats being yourself. Listen, being yourself, is being you. Don't pretend to be someone you're not. You will find the right woman. Would you prefer pretending to be someone else? And then fake it??? NO.
2007-03-27 18:49:00 · answer #10 · answered by Jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋