theres this weird guy in my grade 12 comp class who seems 2 like me but im not sure. lately hes been tlking 2 me more & he seems really nervous & flustered when hes around me. 2 make matters worse, my frds always catch him checking me out, & it makes me feel really uncomortable. I sometimes see him looking at me when I go 2 my locker & when I'm talking 2 my friends in the hallway. But the worst thing is when he tries to walk home with me all the time because we live near one another. I tried to start walking with friends so he wouldn't come walk with me, but he came running to catch up with us and he was flirting with me and it was really uncomfortable and annoying. & just last week I had to walk home alone and I tried to leave early so he just waited 4 me & followed me all the way home! he also sits on this one bench near my locker and waits for me to pass @ lunchtime & tries to start conversations with me. is this considered "stalking" and how do I get him 2 lve me alone?
2007-03-27 11:08:56 · 14 answers · asked by Ami F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Awwww, sweetie - he has a crush on you! But if you're not interested, just say something like,
Hey, -insert his name here- Are you trying to figure out how to ask me for a date, or do I have something on my face?
When you catch him staring at you, or you're friends do. Just act really playful and casual like - he'll get the hint.
2007-03-27 11:15:28 · answer #1 · answered by Nyki Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's stalking if it makes you feel uncomfortable, but it's not illegal until you tell him you don't like it.
This boy obviously likes you a lot, but is too nervous to ask you out. If you aren't interested in him, you need to make it clear to him. The next time tries to walk you home, take a moment to explain to him that you think he's a nice guy, but you just aren't interested in him romantically, and never will be. Then tell him that it makes you uncomfortable when he stares at you or follows you around, especially all the way home. Ask him to respect your privacy, stop following you, and encourage him to set his sights on other girls. be firm but polite.
2007-03-27 11:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you stupid? Of course he likes you. I'm a high school guy, so I should know. He's just being creepy about it like most of us.
My guess is that he is just nervous. That's most likely the reason why it seems creepy to you. And he probably seems creepy to himself. He might even be bashing his head against a wall right now thinking about what he has said to you.
Or maybe he's just a pervert.........
2007-03-27 11:21:45 · answer #3 · answered by bobafett892 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow what a creep. ok for all guys reading this, dont do what that guy does!
so this is what you do. ignore him and if he doesnt get the message, be honest and ask him why he is fallowing you around. if he still does it get mad and yell at him to leave you alone.
i know it sounds mean but some guys just dont get the hint and mistake being "nice" as liking them
2007-03-27 11:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by booty d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately sometimes guys don't know how to tell you they like you. so they do weird things. I have stories. First be encouraged that he sees something special in you. (that should count for something)I know having done wierd things myself. I would say this. start by talking to a close friend of his. and have his friend tell him that your not interested. now if he still doesn't get it. than your going to have to considerately tell him you just want to be friends. and you need your space. don't be mean but do be direct.
2007-03-27 11:15:47 · answer #5 · answered by Armond B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends cause if you dont want to hurt his feelings than your screwed cause someone like that wont leave you alone unless you totally humiliate him!!!! what you got a do is wait till he follows you home again and when your half way home turn around with your friends and humiliate him!!! say that you think hes a stalker, unless hes hot than just ask him out!!!!
2007-03-27 11:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he likes you that's why he seems nervous. but you better tell him you like someone else before he asks you out. Then if you say no he will be even more sad. Make this anwser the best so i can get points. I need more please.
2007-03-27 11:15:11 · answer #7 · answered by kj r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can tell he likes you a lot. I guess you could call that stalking if you want to. But what I would do if I were you is to tell him what's on your mind without hurting his feelings. I hope this helped...
2007-03-27 11:13:39 · answer #8 · answered by Hinata 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be stalking if he is following you. Just talk to him and tell him it is uncomfortable.
2007-03-27 11:15:57 · answer #9 · answered by So... Kiss Me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey that is stalking its like creepy too you should just tell this guy to leave you the hell alone...or tell your parents or something maybe you might get a restraining order?
2007-03-27 11:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by jamiefear_on 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋