ok me and my girlfriend find a place to live. i am 15 and she is 14 and we want to live together without any one is it a good idea?
2007-03-27 11:05:06 · 14 answers · asked by the biggest BYU cougars fan!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hells no...way too young. You still need a work permit to work, cant drive and cant sign contracts!
wait a while, if you're still together after graduation, go for it.
2007-03-27 11:13:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're minors, you can't find a place anywhere to live together without an adult or an emancipation. And no, its NOT a good idea even if you could. You're way too young, live a little before accepting the responsibilities that come along with moving out. You can be in love and have a great relationship while living with your parents/guardians. I know this isn't what you want to hear but you don't have to listen to me, just Uncle Sam when he doesn't let you sign a lease with your 14 year old girlfriend.
2007-03-27 18:10:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, that would be mistake number 1. Then you'll have to pay for the apartment and you'll end up quitting school. Mistake number 2.
Then a couple of years down the line, when you're around 17, she will get pregnant and you'll have a baby. Mistake 3.
Around 20, both of you will realize that this is not the life you signed up for -- you will want "freedom" and money. you won't have freedom because you'll be married, and you won't have money because you never finished school.
In the end, you will ruin both of ya'll life. My advice? Finish high school first. Then see what you can do in college. you're preferences will definately change.
Also, I am not sure if you can lease an appartment at 15...
2007-03-27 18:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by shahaly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY! You guys don't understand what financial responsibilities are. You are 14 and 15 years old! No offense, I know you guys think you'll be together forever, but you won't, you don't understand how much harder it is to live with someone compared to just dating, or whatever it is that you guys do considering you're too young to even drive anywhere. You're not old enough to put your name on a lease for an apartment, you're not old enough to get a loan for a house, you don't have the income for any of this! You're not even old enough to have a job yet! You don't just have bills to pay, when you move out you have EVERYTHING to buy, you have to buy sofa's, T.V., T.V. stand, lighting, dining room table, washer and dryer, bed, plates, bowls, cups, silverware, cookware, refrigerator, everything for your bathroom. You need a car, that you can't sign for either, and you'll have car payments, on top of your house/apartment payment, including your trash bill, electric bill, gas bill, water bill, and insurance, and when you move out of mom and dads, you'll have to pay for your own health insurance too! ,You're still babies and you think you are going to grow up and fall in love with each other! Move out when you're barely into your teenage years! Children think! Talk to your parents, I feel sorry for them, it sounds like they've got their hands full with the two of you. And I'm not trying to make you feel dumb, I'm just trying to get my point across to you, you don't really understand, and won't until you are older, how young 14 and 15 really is, you think you're all grown up, but darlin, you're not even close!
2007-03-27 18:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not do that. You will not pass go, you will not collect 200 dollars. You will become a problem on society which will have to come down on you in the near future. You are not grown up and you are still juveniles which is obvious by this question. Now go home and eat dinner along with finishing your homework.
2007-03-27 18:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by KIB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not yet you both have many years to go. And if you two ever break up, you don't want to grow up with the idea that you have to live with each gf. Or end up trying to replace or get that same feeling again.
2007-03-27 18:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by I AM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not.
It's impossible, anyway. How are you going to sign a lease? You're not legal age to sign binding documents.
How would you pay for an apartment, even if you could sign a lease?
Go to school, get an education, get a good job, then do whatever you want.
2007-03-27 18:08:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you both can save up enough money and can afford paying rent every month, you two should move in together. But you guys are wayyyy too young now and don't know really what you want.
2007-03-27 18:08:35 · answer #8 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Other than the obvious reasons of being immature and inexperienced in life, you are minors and cannot sign contracts or own property unless you are emancipated.
2007-03-27 18:22:08 · answer #9 · answered by franny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you can afford it and knows what you're getting into. Bills are no fun and getting into debts at such young tender age is a no-no!
2007-03-27 18:08:28 · answer #10 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋