Girlfriend broke up with me and I want her back!?

Question

We've been dating for 2 years now and was fine until one day she told me she doesn't love me anymore..she also said she doesn't miss or think about me at all....is this true?

what can i do to get her back? i'm so depressed and i cry all the time...i dont know what to do...helpp

i know she is not cheating on me...how can her love just fade away after 2 years of being with me?

Answer 1

Have you any idea why the break-up? Was there a third party involved. If its due to differences in opinion, speak with her and let he know that you'll willing to work on that and wants the make the relationship work. However, if there is a third party involved, I'm afraid you need to move on. When it comes to affairs of the heart, there is no right or wrong. Just fate!

Answer 2

If I were you I would play that song by Beyonce Irreplaceable over and over again. You do not want to be with someone who doesn't feel the same way back. Everyone is replaceable and if I were you I would go get a shave, a haircut and start dressing really nice like you were never affected. It might hurt her to see that you seem as though you have moved on. Don't sit around thinking about it all the time. Try to do things to take your mind off of it like going out with the guys or something. Maybe even go to church or just find yourself a hobby that helps you to keep very busy until you just don't care anymore. You will find someone else. Just like with death, it hurts real bad the first day but with each passing day it will not hurt as bad. Just keep that in mind and you will be fine. It was probably her loss.

Answer 3

There's a lot that you leave out of the story, so as far as how her love could just disappear after two years, you need to examine what happened between the two of you and be as honest with yourself as you can. The answer to both of your questions are in the results of that personal examination. Girls just don't fall out of love for no reason. Stop crying and think long and hard about what you might have done to turn her away from you, then perhaps you can turn things around and into something positive.

Answer 4

Look, we've ALL been there, but second times around will NEVER work if you force them. Now don't go and burn bridges with this girl (don't trash talk her or anything), cause you never know what the future may hold. But the worst thing to do is to immediately try to re-kindle things, because she is not digging you right now. Don't even try to be her friend. Just go about your business... two things will happen, either a.) somebody better than her will come along or b.) she'll realize her mistake and come back to you. Make it seem like you the guy that got away, and NOT that she is the girl that got away. Believe me, it sucks, but you gotta bite the bullet and forget it.

Answer 5

Brother, I'm in that same exact boat right now. Don't try to get her back. it will only make things worse when she has to say "No" again.

I was dating someone for SIX years, we broke up and I realized that she was the person I wanted to be with the rest of my life. I thought about it, talked to a mutual friend about it (he told me she still felt the same way about too). I believe him, went to see her, and before I could get the words out of my mouth, she said no. If I could have laid down and died right there, I would have.

It's been almost a year now and I'm still not over it. I will NEVER get over it. I found the perfect person for me, the only person that "got" me and I f*cked it up. I'll be kicking myself until the day I die. And yes, every now and then I cry about it.

I won't tell you to get over it because I know you won't (If this was the true love of your life). Your best bet is to just go on with your life. Find something else to occupy it. Write about how your feel. Write a story about it. Write a poem about it. Write a play about it (that's what I'm doing). Believe me it helps. But don't try to get her back. she's moved on and anything you do will only make it hurt more. i hope things get better.

Answer 6

Thats very cruel. Try writing her a letter or something expressing how much you miss her. With this letter give her a white rose. (girls love white roses) If that does not work its time you move. It may take awhile to get back in the game but you can do it. Living in depression while she is having fun is unfair to yoorself. So try being happy. Hang out with some friends. They will cheer you up. Then, you may meet a new girl one who will stay true and dear to you.

Answer 7

Why would you want someone who cheating on you and doesn't love you?? You deserve better and you deserve not to have to cry every night over her. Move on. Enjoy life. The perfect one is out there for you and can be just waiting around the corner.

Answer 8

You shouldn't try to get her back because it's obviously that she doesn't want you any more. Maybe is because she is cheating on you.Any how don't cry for her, she is not the last girl on this planet.It would be very hard for you to move on but it will for the better.You will find a girl that really deserves you.

Answer 9

She definitely has a reason why suddenl;y she changes her feelings or mind on you. Maybe she just can't tell it to you bluntly and frankly. You are actually hitting around the bush tryin to win her back without even knowing on how to...just like my ex...I can't tell him the real reason why I don't want our realtionship anymore for I am afraid that he might be insulted or so....Try to talk to her...Knowing the root of the problems helps you how to have it solved...

Answer 10

if your girl friend told you all this to your face. the only thing you can do is face it and move on. you cant just sit around for the rest of your life waiting for someone that dont want you .get on with your life be a man.