2007-03-27 10:59:28 · 19 answers · asked by Voight-Kampff 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes you need to be by yourself, I think the answer to your question depends on the type of person you are and where you are in your life. Relationships are hard work, but should be rewarding. No one wants to be alone for ever, but there are times in our lifes when we need to be alone. If you are feeling down at the moment, take some time out from relationships, have a rest from it all and take the time to find out what you want, what you have to give and what you need. Its actually a really good thereaputic thing to do. When you are feeling stronger and happier then think about exploring a relationship again. You must not go into a relationship carrying old baggage nor expect a new partner to "save" you or "heal" you from past experiences, only you can do that for yourself.
2007-03-27 11:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by sassymoomin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Living by yourself ..not being by yourself
Dr bad
got the t-shirt
2007-03-27 20:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it takes up to much energy pretending to be something your not, Plus you are the only one who gets hurt when you dont find what you are looking for by putting on a front :)
2007-03-27 18:05:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its always better to just be yourself. Changing who you are for someone else is wrong. BE YOURSELF
2007-03-27 18:02:46 · answer #4 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some times. i've lived awhile... when i was 17 i lived alone till i was 19 it was great. then i got married. when you have kids your never alone agian...once i was divorced, i lived alone for short periods of time, i liked that. now i have my youngest child [14] and no live in man for over 3 years. i like it. but i know i don't want to be alone as i grow older. ask me agian in 4 yrs.
2007-03-27 18:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by closeinphilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, i mean u dont want to have a relationship w/ someonne who thinks ur someone u arent. pretending to be someone different will make u regret it in the end...and who knows maybe to one u want is looking for ur type
2007-03-27 18:03:49 · answer #6 · answered by as 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean not in a relationship with "commitments," then yes.
There's no reason you can't date around but still go home to YOUR place with YOUR stuff at the end of the day.
2007-03-27 18:02:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can only be yourself with yourself, no matter what people say. you only know yourself.
2007-03-27 18:03:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If you are not with your soul mate and you are not having a good relationship then yes..you are better off alone.
2007-03-27 18:03:13 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's better to be happy...whatever that entails...make your life the best it can be whether you are by yourself or with others.
2007-03-27 18:02:37 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋