you DON'T love but have sex regularly??
2007-03-27 10:54:52 · 15 answers · asked by SAcat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
one soul mate and sex once a month, if she were the one that makes me the happiest
2007-03-27 10:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by bperez2002 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know that there is anything like an absolute soulmate. If there were I would rather be with that person (and work on the sex) than be with someone I don't care about and get all the sex in the world.
No matter how "hot" the woman is, the reality is that men do get bored after a while. See the case of Halle Berry, arguably one of the "hottest" women in Hollywood. During her marriage to Eric Benet, he had 8, yes 8, other lovers. You'd think that with a girl like Halle Berry, he'd have been faithful. Instead of getting bored with someone I don't care about, I'd rather be bored with a "soulmate"
2007-03-27 17:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by Taharqa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soulmate can sometimes be someone you are not even in love with, it can be your best friend. What makes you more happy though? I don't believe my husband is my soulmate, but I love him to bits. I've got friends I absolutly adore because of their personality... You have to destinguish. I would not live with sex once a month though... I would not live without Friends either... think, think and think again. And when you've thought once more, look into the future and imagine how it would be on both sides... the answer is always there
2007-03-27 11:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont believe in soulmates, once you find someone that you are compatible with and have similar interests and you love them then you should work on it.
Sex is very important in all relationship and should be regular to the opinion of both parties, if its not then you need to discuss it with your partner. You should not have to choose what you have written. This may lead to adultary as you are not satisfied and may want to seak it else where (not suggesting you actually will).
Its hard to suggest but you may want to think why the other half is delating sex for prolonged periods, is there someone els?
Whatever you choose, may you have lots of sex with the one most dearest to you (I mean as a partner not a friend or relative lol.
2007-03-27 11:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by ibs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Soul Mate - As long as there was intimate contact, but sex once a month would be something to look forward to with the one I love.
2007-03-27 23:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by Loader2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The soulmate everytime, but preferably more than once a month.
2007-03-27 11:03:46 · answer #6 · answered by misshoneybun28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex once a month, that would be like a prison sentence, i like my sex as often as i can get it, as like 2-4 times a week, so yes give me the non lover, you can find a soul mate at anytime
2007-03-28 02:58:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah i would go for the soulmate route (even though i don't really belive in them) once a month is still infinetly more than im getting now
2007-03-28 07:36:00 · answer #8 · answered by nurgle69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be daft girl go for the soulmate. Sex alone will wear very thin very quickly
2007-03-27 10:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by shelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a total soul mate....... we have been together 5 years....... and not slept together once..... hes in the army so not met yet but hes coming over here in september for a month with the view of marrying me.... we talk on webcams daily....... when not away in iraq he calls me for hours each day..... im in uk and hes in usa.......
we are in love
reguler sex is a thing of the future :) but its well worth the wait :)
2007-03-27 10:59:59 · answer #10 · answered by in the truth 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋