Does she like me and need help...?

Question

OK, so theres this girl. She is so awesome. I've tried to forget about her, I've liked other girls, but deep down, I still like her...

She flirts with me a lot, and we have a lot in common. She is always mock mad at me, and she always gives me puppy eyes and other stuff when I joke around with her.

Anyways, besides that, I have a problem. Although I think she likes me, she also likes around 6-10 other guys. Obviously, she is having issues with stuff like that right now...
I know I shouldn't try and change someone, but is there any way I can get her to like JUST me??? Because I'm afraid that if I ask her out, she will say yes, but still have feelings for the other guys.

Help?!?!?!

Answer 1

This girl has not decided who to be serious with thus give her some personal space. Let her sort out her thoughts. Be patient and don't push.

Answer 2

I think deep down inside, she does like you, yet she is "playing the field" right now, which is what alot of people do. The old saying that "the grass is always greener on the other side" seems to be so tempting to some people, but at the end of the day when you are sitting alone and thinking about that one person who is there for you, I am sure "your face" pops up in her head. Just take it slow and remember that you are "worth it". I think you should ask her out and I am sure you will discover that she is very different when she is alone with you. Good luck!

Answer 3

Wow, you like her and you'll probably like other females down the line. I would say to wait and see if she breaks it down to you without you saying anything. If you two are good friends, find out what she likes in those other guys, but don't criticize. If you aren't afraid of rejection, suggest taking her to an outing. I wouldn't let her know that I like her b/c obviously she's not ready. Just ask questions about what she likes. Maybe she'll come around and tell you what her intentions are.

Answer 4

Well, "Sexydogfight," this "issue" certainly has weight! Yup, it's right up there with global starvation, pollution, nuclear war, and stained undies. The only thing, sorry, "issue" either of you have is a shared case of raging teenage hormones. Why not try a new hobby to fill those troublesome, horny, empty hours between classes? Check out the benefits of cold showers.

Answer 5

Are you familiar with the phrase "married not buried"? It means just because you commit to one person, you still find other people attractive. In fact, I would think there was something wrong with you if suddenly everyone was ugly to you except your current boy/girlfriend.

If you want to date her, ask her out. If you get along well, you could then ask her to date only you, and not see other guys romantically. You can't MAKE her do anything, but you can ask her to honor your relationship by only seeing you. But I don't think that should be the first step. If she is not willing to be exclusive with you, you have to decide if you are willing to be one of a few guys she dates.

Answer 6

I say avoid a headache like that. Its never really worth going out with someone if before you start going out your worried about her trustworthiness.

Answer 7

Well you cant get her to stop liking the other guys. But if you go out with her, you can always get closer and then maybe she will see that its only you she likes. good luck =)

Answer 8

I think you should suck it up and find ways to talk to her about it. You'll never know what's going on exactly unless you talk to her about it..you could be wrong. If you really like her and she really likes you, she'll probably understand your feelings. You could both sort things out.

Answer 9

she is a serious flirt, if not a flat out ho.

I wouldn't bother with her, unless you just want to hit it and quit it, or share her with other guys for quick release.

Answer 10

Be your self, be friends with her first and when you think you are ready to ask her out ASK HER!