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so i dont have big boobs and sometimes i feel like i should so i feel better about myself.. im a 34 A :( and i just dont feel pretty.. i have a big booty which means thys (big thys) but im skinny too.. the black guys love it but my boyfriend is always lookin at girls that are a very diff body style.. like the volumptuious type girls.. big boobs,blonde hair very tan skin type girls.. blah!! i hate it.. how do girls feel better and more confident with themselfs??
2007-03-27 10:49:09 · 10 answers · asked by Perfectly happy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By leaving the person who doesn't give them a REASON to be confident.
2007-03-27 10:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, the boob prob can be fixed. Try a push up bra or "stuffing" your bra with those silicon pads. The big booty, awsome... you have something to work with. I think that there is someone for everyone. Everyone has a sole mate. You just need to find yours. I buy cute shirts (kinda tight fitting) with my fav pair of jeans and some high heels. Sexy. Walk like you own the place. Know you own the place. 83% of men say that confidence is the sexiest aspect in a woman.
2007-03-27 17:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by Kendall M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first u have to be ready to make this change take three deep breaths and try things to make urself feel better like think of what u can wear that us girls with breast can't like i'm a 32 C and I make with what I got like for u just be confident first of all and try things that make u look more curvier then u really are like a lace spagetti strapped black white or gray shirt and a nice stumach belt in the color black or chocolate and that will give illusion of curves and try a nice lose fit jeans darker the slimmer effect try for that a nice dark blue and nice flat shoe black or chocolate to match ur belt and u can wear a shrub on top for ur arms if u want anything that ties a the waste will give illusion ur bigger and curvy like all the other girls
2007-03-27 17:56:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not easy. Everybody gets down on themselves. I think curves and booty is sexy! And you know what? Your boobs are yours and you can't change that ( at least naturally) so you can either be upset about it or learn to love yourself. That bieng said, it's not an easy thing to do. What helped me was just living a healthy lifestyle and thinking positive thoughts.Surround yoursel with positive people and eliminate the negative ones. If your boyfriend doesn't apprecite who you are, then is he really the boyfriend for you?
2007-03-27 17:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by Melissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop giving into the hype that men like women with big breasts. There is nothing wrong with you! Be proud of your body type--show it off. If your boyfriend likes to look at voluptuous girls, so what? Since it bothers you so much, get a new boyfriend.
2007-03-27 17:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be a constant battle girl. The more you take care of yourself, the better you will feel about yourself. Dress up. Workout. Eat better. And no matter what- STOP COMPARING. There will always be someone with bigger boobs, better eyes, whiter teeth, etc etc. you have to accept yourself the way you are and tell yourself every day something you love about yourself
2007-03-27 17:54:37 · answer #6 · answered by hollybear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, the last thing I would judge my girlfriend on is how big her breasts are. Or her looks in general.
Don't worry about something as trivial as this. The only thing that bigger breasts would give you is more stares from random guys... in which case your boyfriend would be having the same issue you claim to be having with him. Personality is what counts in the end. If big breasts really mattered to your boyfriend, he'd make it clear enough to you by not being with you.
2007-03-27 17:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by Antoine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose the booty, fix yourself up, or move over to the Dark Side.
2007-03-27 18:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by dwforce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it's just your mind playing games with you, because you're self conscious.
You need to remember that you're beautiful how you are, and if your boyfriend doesn't make you feel that way, you should dump his ***.
2007-03-27 17:54:28 · answer #9 · answered by Alannah! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put socks in your bra! LoL....
i think i'm the same way... but that only because i don't have it... what i have is what i love... which is whatever my girlfriend have... looking at other women's characteristics is just being man... why is that? no one knows.
2007-03-27 17:54:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋