I used to date this guy about 20 years ago for afew years we werent like b/f and g/f just went out on date and stuff well he met someone and I went got married. Well 20yrs later he has always managed to find me we go out for dinner and it was always like nothing has changed , a few years ago we got in to a deep conversation and he told me that he cant get me off his mind & I am all he thinks about I I felt the same way, I told him I needed to work out my marriage. Well now I am in the process of getting a divorce after 17 years. Once again he came back in my life he is still with his girlfriend. Well ended up going out on a over nighter together , I have always had strong feelings. we had a wonderful and the sex was just as awesome as was then even better. I would never ask him to leave his family but I do have alot feelings for him. I know he has feelings for me 2. Should I just leave it alone or tell him how I feel. I know he loves his G/F but he is the one that keeps finding me.
2007-03-27 10:47:10 · 10 answers · asked by ohmy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all I have never cheated on husband and we are getting a divorce our marriage has been over along time ago. Couldnt it be that maybe we were just meant to be together in the long run and it didnt happen that way, I would never ask himto leave his g/f in the first place I love him enough to let go be he keeps coming back to me I amnot going after him.
2007-03-27 10:58:53 · update #1
Believe I not just going to sit around and wait for him I do have a life to live and I not going to wait around for ever 4 him either he know how I feel some what but do I really want to tell how I really really feel I dont want to have to make him make a decision like that I want himto do it on his own. Does that sound right
2007-03-27 11:08:14 · update #2
Tell him. Maybe he's waiting for you.
2007-03-27 10:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he keeps finding you and he really did tell you he had feelings for you first then it's only fair that you can do the same to him at least once. I suggest that you call him up or meet him somewhere and tell him how you feel. Then you say that the game of tag has made him "it" If he wants to go out with you he will tag you and if he wishes to stay with his current g/f then he will tag her.
yeah, i know a strange way to explain it but I love games lol. anyway. Good luck ^-^
2007-03-27 10:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by Fayt 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've met a woman who got divorced and ended up marrying her high school sweetheart at the age of 45. you never know, like they said just make sure he's doing this for the right reasons. good luck!
2007-04-04 10:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow this is tough. are you willing to settle for when he finds you? its hard to wait for someone.. and you could miss a great guy in the meantime. keep your options open you can always get together when it works for the both of you. but don't stop living life. if he really wants to be with you he has to make the desision, and take the step. good luck.
2007-03-27 11:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by closeinphilly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I lost somebody merely final december, he replaced into seven, and he replaced into like my little brother. i wanted human beings to be there for me or i might have jumped off the deep end. Be there on your pal, do not enable him conflict on his own. he will thank you, it particularly is a protracted grieving technique, yet once you merely enable him wing it on his own he would be worse off. in the initiating i replaced into on my own then finally somebody helped me by using it, and now i'm feeling greater effective, he will by no potential completely be over it, yet once you're there for him then he will relish it very lots. i recognize I did. So i'm effective he will too.
2016-10-20 13:37:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what you should TELL HIM
cause its a once in a lifetime opportunity.
GO FOR IT!!!!!
20 years honey of thinkin of you!!!!!!!!!!!
damn thats alot not to forget someone
and if the SEX was GREAT then hey what else can you ask for???
2007-04-04 06:55:40 · answer #6 · answered by Livin by each second 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him how you feel..but dont let him string you along..it isnt fair..he could have had numerous affairs before you also.
2007-04-04 08:02:36 · answer #7 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't love his girlfriend. if he loved her he wouldn't cheat on her. and same goes for you and your husband. he doesn't love you either because if he loved you he would be with you... not just sleeping with you when he finds his way back in town.
grow up.. and don't ruin anymore relationships while you are at it.
2007-03-27 10:53:53 · answer #8 · answered by Bex 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
he has been around for a long long time.. must be fate.
2007-04-04 07:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him
2007-04-04 09:52:39 · answer #10 · answered by Angel eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋