Looking for tip to flirt. lol
2007-03-27 10:38:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you cant unless you put a spell on them
Improve your appearance-make sure you are healthy and that you are appealing. Your hair, teeth, nails and skin should be appealing, clean and in good repair. Feel good about yourself and be confident-making sure you are appealing will increase your self-esteem. This will attract the guy-guys like women who are confident in themselves
Find out what your weaknesses are and find out how to fix them. Your girlfriend or girlfriends can help so that you can bolster the crucial positive impression you are trying to make on Mr. Right. However, don't be someone you aren't either-the true you should still shine through. No one is perfect, and everyone is allowed to have some flaws, don't be afraid to be who you are, selling yourself as someone you aren't will only destroy a relationship.
People skills-get your people skills in order. You need to avoid arguments, start off conversations in a friendly manner, talk nicely, be nice and give compliments that are sincere. You should always work to make whomever you are talking to feel important-don't wave them off or drift out of the conversation-really listen to what they are saying. Remember, this is Mr. Right and you are trying to get him to fall for you. Don't be afraid to disagree, but don't put down their fundamental beliefs either-everyone is entitled to their opinion, but that doesn't mean that theirs is wrong and yours is right.
Small talk is important too-have something nice to say and say it well. Use appropriate emotions when you are talking, know when to not talk and focus more on listening to him than on hearing your own voice.
Let yourself be real to him-lower your guard a bit and admit some of your shortcomings. Tease him tastefully-all in an effort to get him to lower his guard a bit, this way he can learn who you really are.
Be attractive and sexy-not overbearing and cheap. Keep your morals and values and don't overextend yourself-if you are cheap and easy, you won't make a lasting impression, just a fast one. Something worth keeping requires work on his behalf too.
Have fun and don't forget to be a friend as well to your Mr. Right. In no time, he will be head over heels in love with the real you.
2007-03-27 10:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥™Tia™♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it has to be your charme will do it. Don't just stand and wait though, be honest and yourself. If not you may make him interested but when your personality sets in either he likes you or he doesn't... think about what is worth it and how much you want it... and don't forget you can't MAKE anyone fall in love, only gain some interest.
2007-03-27 10:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all depends what the guy is looking for in the first place. Usually its not me though. Still, never mind.
As for flirting, be yourself and have a laugh. I find a good sense of humour helps.
"An englishman, scotsman and.. walk into a .."
2007-03-27 10:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
-Maintain eye contact and smile
-Establish a strong friendship first
-Show you care (fix their colar, pick lint of the side of their shirt)
-Try NOT always looking your best because well you want them to love them for you, the occasional slouchy sweatpants and all
-skip the makeup it's unatural
-Don't get all super clingy--do hug him when he least expects it
These are rather bold flirting tips but well be bold be who you are and odds are they'll love you just for that
2007-03-27 10:59:52 · answer #4 · answered by sweet silence 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
eye contact if he is siting next to u , try looking at him from the side , (coner of ur eye) play with ur hair , nudge him or any other change u have to touch him even hurt him a little not to much eg stand on his foot , make jokes with him etc
2007-03-27 21:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by ak222002 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love grows over time ...... do not mistake lust for love...... many people go wrong here....... they think WOW im in love..... however love takes time...... when the lust wears off .... if there is still feeling there then its love.....
as foe making a guy fall for you.... depends what your after..... short skirts ... low cut top and youll get all the attention you want.... (or dont want)
2007-03-27 10:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by in the truth 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
most guys will start likin ya wen u pay more attention to them and smile a lot and laugh at their jokes...(i mean the good ones)
2007-03-27 10:47:05 · answer #7 · answered by lilshawty l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
men only fall in love when they are ready the same way women do !!!
2007-03-27 10:43:45 · answer #8 · answered by maddie xx 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
be friendly
be yourself
dont panic or act like you're nervous
dont fidget too much
eye contact
laugh at his jokes or what he say
touch him if you get a chance
be forward
2007-03-27 11:10:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
U cant 'make' anyone fall in love with u!
Just be yourself! :-)
2007-03-27 10:42:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋