I like this guy I'm friends with. When we go out, it's always with a group of mutual friends. We tease and play with each other throughout the night and there's the occasional arm or hand brush, but that's the extent of it. There's lots of eye contact, but I make eye contact with everyone. When we go home at, I'll call him and we'll chat for a bit. If my phone disconnects, he calls right back and he'll talk to me until I fall asleep. Yet everytime I try to get him to come over, he seems oblivious to my requests. Does he want to be more than just friends or should I just accept him as nothing more than a friend and move on?
2007-03-27 10:33:25 · 11 answers · asked by Tina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he could be shy. sounds like he really likes you. i would wait a bit longer and see what happens. don't get disappointed either way. if anything, this sounds like a great friendship
2007-03-27 10:38:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say. You need to decide whether you want to be more than friends with him and go from there. If you really want to date him, you should let him know in a subtle way. Or ask some of your mutual friends if they know how he feels. Just realize that you will jeopardize the friendship if the feeling isn't mutual or you date and break up later. Figure out what you want first, and then make a decision as to what to do.
2007-03-27 10:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by Moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he may be a little nervous about making a move!!! Like when you guys hang out you are always with other people so there really isn't a chance for that awkward silence. Maybe he is intimidated by the fact that you two will be alone..I would take it slow and maybe like when you hang out walk by him and maybe like spend time talking alone. Like maybe when you are walking somewhere talk to him just one on one in person. You could also hang out at your house with the group of friends that way he isn't walking into a weird place by himself!!! Hope this helped you!! GOOD LUCK!!
2007-03-27 10:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by Squeeks!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems that theres sparks here and there. My best advice to you would be to just ask him, because well the worst thing he can say is no and you'll have to move on anyways. But by asking you'll never be taunted by the what ifs and maybes. Since you two talk on the phone so much if you're shy just ask then, no eye contact and its tottaly embarassment free. I wish you the best and who knows maybe he'll be the one to confess before you.
2007-03-27 10:41:32 · answer #4 · answered by sweet silence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried telling him bluntly how you feel. Some of us guys aren't always the brightest. :D Or maybe just hesitant of doing something wrong in the dating game.
Either way, if he's really somebody you think you could have a 'relationship' with, I'd hope that you believe you can be open enough and honest enough with him to say: "I really like you and I'd like to see more out of 'us'."
2007-03-27 10:44:08 · answer #5 · answered by Evan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out by asking him. Let him know your feelings for him and see if he reciprocates. I do think he likes you at this stage otherwise why would he spent so much time talking on he phone with you even after you guys have parted from outings.
2007-03-27 10:40:37 · answer #6 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just a little shy. he probably REALLY likes you and sometimes when guys really really like girls they get nervous to go farther then just friends. he's probably really nervous to make a first move. ask him ?'s like "is there anyone your interested in right now?" or you can just straight up ask him and put him on the spot just to get it over with when u two r alone "r we ever going to be more then friends, because i really like you". hope this helps!
2007-03-27 10:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by ilovehur42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him how he feels if yes decide if u want 2 be more than friends or just friends
it mite cause your friendship 2 suffer if u 2 break up
i hoped i helped good luck
maybe ask him someone where it's just u 2
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-andi
2007-03-27 10:40:05 · answer #8 · answered by andi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find out is by telling him how you feel and asking him straight up. I know it's hard, but if you really want to know if it can be more, you need to suck it up and tell him how you feel and see if he feels the same.
2007-03-27 10:38:50 · answer #9 · answered by Matt M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds to me that he really does want to be more than friends. I would ask around it, using questions like "do you like anyone right now?" and other things. Good luck! =)
2007-03-27 10:37:35 · answer #10 · answered by twoxforxtragety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋