She recently blew off a party that she was invited to, I think it is because I was going. This is because she changed her evite response right after I posted mine from "going" to probably not" and never showed. I think she has some weird impression of me now that doesn't make any sense!
2007-03-27 10:31:43 · 11 answers · asked by Tireless 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you crazy? Heck no you shouldn't call her and tell her that. She is trying to avoid you, probably because she wants to avoid the scene of exactly what you want to call her for.
You are divorced for a reason, and it is time you moved on. You should stay away from any contact, unless you want a court injunction from her. Now if there are children involved, that makes it harder. You and her will have to get along and see each other for the sake of the children.
Please move on. There are lots of other women out there that will find you as their "prince charming". It will happen when you least expect it, and it will be wonderful for you.
Good luck!
2007-03-27 10:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by Bare B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how long its been. I mean if its been less than a month then you're gonna miss them no matter what, b/c they're still close to you. I think if its been a few months and you still feel the same way that you're feeling now, then maybe you should try to open contact again, but don't go straight for the "I miss you, I still love you" stuff. Start off with a hi, I can't believe we haven't talked in ____ months. If its still soon after the break up, do yourself a favor and give yourself time to decide if you really feel that way, or you're just lonely. Theres a big difference.
2007-03-27 17:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by tyzekiel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its how you truley feel you should tell her. just dont make a big deal about it. if she broke up with you its for a reason and she may just be trying to avoid awkward instances. i dont blame her. on the other hand if you broke up with her laying that on her will do nothing but make her wonder why the hell your bothering. either way if you handle the situation very lightly and dont corner her into talking to you it should be okay.
2007-03-27 17:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by Punk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How recent was the break up? You should give her some time before talking to her again.
2007-03-27 17:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't. If you aren't together, there is a reason, so forget about it. If you call her, you will be giving in to her. I say, just forget it and if she comes to you ok, maybe think about it, but otherwise, leave her be or you will come across as weak and needy.
2007-03-27 17:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by big stan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...you can call her and tell her anything you wanna tell her honestly...but no guarantees she gonna be changing her ways for you otherwise partner. Women can be highly fickle my friend unfortunately...but this ain't new news too ya really...is it?
2007-03-27 17:40:01 · answer #6 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try to talk to her because she may be avoiding you because she still like you, she just probably doesn't want you to know that.
2007-03-27 17:38:37 · answer #7 · answered by Melli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because obviously she is tryin to avoid u so let it set for a while and see how she feels
2007-03-27 17:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by Quentrius M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it man, you would be setting yourself up to get hurt. Trust me, I have done it many times.
2007-03-27 17:36:53 · answer #9 · answered by Patrick D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"miss her", maybe. "love her", no way, not now, not tomorrow, not ever! wake up smell the roses, shes moved on, and so should you! love lost sucks! (sorry dude)
2007-03-27 17:40:32 · answer #10 · answered by ron and rasta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋