The guy i am seeing, and i had plans to play basketball tonight but as we were walking back from a class he ran into a couple buddies who were on their way to go play basketball... now he's going to go play with them and will be too tired to play with me... it hurts me that he will just give up our plans to go play with them. Is this normal guy behaviour or should i be hurt by this?
2007-03-27 10:30:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's sort of normal. Do you two normally play basketball together on a regular basis, or not really? He might be more comfortable to play with his buds because with you, he can't really go all that hard on you (like he can with his boys)... Plus, guys need some "guy time" where they can hang out with their boys because there are certain things that guys will NEVER do around girls, that they CAN do with their guy friends. So don't let your feelings be hurt. :)
2007-03-27 10:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by Hayden F. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm a guy does that to me to but idc cause we're just friends in iddle school
just say "if u want to hang out with your buddies over me that's fine tonight but if u do that again I WON'T TALK TO U AGAIN!" and if he really cares about he will not do that again
2007-03-27 17:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy really wants to be with you, he wouldn't ditch you for his friends anytime he happens to run into them. In fact, if i were you, I would ditch him to hang out with your friends and see how he likes it.
2007-03-27 17:40:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is thoughtless, cruel, mean and just plain flat out inexcusable. I'd go party! LOL
2007-03-27 17:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya this is a typicall guy. If he don't come back to you than dump him...
Don't worry about it though
2007-03-27 17:35:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset, but maybe you can plan a movie night instead.
2007-03-27 17:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends.
Did he apologize to you?
Is this a one time thing, or does he do this often?
2007-03-27 17:37:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is if he views you nothing more then a low level friend
2007-03-27 17:33:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its normal guy behavior.
2007-03-27 17:35:51 · answer #9 · answered by lilmissusa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋