Girls that are 130lbs and have a little bit of love handles. a poochy stomache when they sit down. lets just say and average girl. not some model body type.
2007-03-27 10:29:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope. A decent guy wont care about what you look like. If I guy says he "can't" like you because "you're not his type (physically)" then he's after a girl for the wrong reasons anyway. You don't wanna be a trophy girlfriend... You want your boy to be proud of you, but I promise, ALWAYS trying to look good to please someone who can't be pleased with the way you are is no good.
2007-03-27 10:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by Hayden F. 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
What people think of you isn't really an issue. The real thing is how you feel about yourself. If you look in the mirror and cry, or generally dislike how you look you may want to do something about it. Once you're happy with the way YOU look, then guys will flock to your confidence. Personally, i dont like model types at all and neither do most guys. Scrawny little wretch's they are, i like some kind of softness to my girl. but not fat, thats unattractive as well. Most guys will choose athletic types and slightly overweight but nicely shaped women over fat, or scrawny model types.
2007-03-27 10:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a matter of preference for the guy, but also, I've seen lots of skinny to buff guys with chicks that aren't model prefect. I think that it's also a matter of the way a plus size girl carries herself, and that's herself and not her weight. If you are comfortable with your body and you project that, then most people can see past your weight, but if you are always dressing down to cover yourself up, and feel uncomfortable about your size, that can be really hard from someone to look past cause it just brings you down and the vibe you give out. I'm 5'3 172 pounds, I'm not fat I still can fit in to Jr's size 13, but I do have extra padding, I cover up the parts I don't like (my stomach) and show the parts I do like my boobs (not huge but I still got some) and I love my cute butt. I wear layers but I love bright colors. I wish my tummy was firmer, but I on most day when I look in the mirror and go "damn, I look cute, today." That makes me feel good and I notice that on those days I turn way more heads. If you want to dress tips on how to cover up and show off let me know.
2007-03-27 11:00:38 · answer #3 · answered by BabeLive98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He may not pick you right away, but if he feels the vibe between you and gets to know you......an average girl is the best choice for a serious relationship. Some guys know that early on and some guys learn that too late. good luck.
2007-03-27 10:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by ruttster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No guys dont care about that type of stuff as much as you may think. If you have enough CONFIDENCE then that over rules over everything. Insecurity is more of a turn off to guys than 'love handles'. I think men like a confident woman. You have to love urself. If you dont love urself then who's gonna love u?
2007-03-27 10:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by Capee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hassle yourself with the mind of a guy... All girls are concidered when it comes to guys... Just take care of yourself the best you can and he will come around to notice.
T.v, magazines, did that to us
But in reality that girl in the books is taken as a fake...I'm sure that girls look at the guy on t.v and wonder where he is.
Just girls are more insecure...and guy don't care to much!!
2007-03-27 10:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by lilboykrazie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a woman who isn't caught up in the societal delusion that physical "beauty" is most important. If these "men" are truly men then they will be focusd on your inner beauty, which is by far much more important than the outer shell that will eventually fade and fall away.You would be a compliment to my manhood if i were in the market for a mate.
2007-03-27 10:38:25 · answer #7 · answered by Master Ang Gi Guong 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a problem. It depends on how tall you are as well. I mean I like love handles and a little weight so i dont feel like im hugging a damn stick lol
2007-03-27 10:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by Matt M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think men more look that you take care of yourself. If you dont wash your hair or brush your teeth, wear pants that dont fit you right and have holes or stains in it, their not going to go for you. Even if your 115 lb.
Weight doesnt matter as much as how you carry yourself.
2007-03-27 10:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by Zenthae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a serious relationship probably means looking for personality.
130 is lightweight, relax.
2007-03-27 10:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by makospawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋