My lover's friend and i work for the same company. We used to talk and laugh before, but now he just change. The last time he screamed at me on the phone, (during work) and he would send me nasty e mails and even report me to the big boss. When we are on social gatherings, he would hardly say anything to me. Recently, i noticed he has blocked me on msn. I have brought this to the attention of my boyfriend who says that he cannot comment. I think this is unfair to me, cause am not aware of anything wrong that i did to hurt this man and i don't get any support from my b/f who's still friends with him as they share the same apartment. In this light, cause i know things would get ugly, do you think it's wise if i break up with my b/f because of this issue? I can fight for myself, but in this situation, i think i deserve support from my boyfriend. I am in two minds. Please help?
2007-03-27 10:15:49 · 6 answers · asked by Mamamia 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's true that your BF should support you. However, I don't think it's fair for you to try to put him in the middle of this problem with you and his friend because a conflict between them would jeopardize and/or cause tension in his current living situation. You should not let this guy come between you and your man with his bad attitude. I would do my best to think above the influence of this "friend." If he doesn't respect you, and is intentionally trying to be cruel, then you should not give him the satisfaction of letting him affect your life. Just go on with your life and disregard his attempts to shun you.
2007-03-27 10:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by Andrea M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is worth it, then you should stay with him. But you should tell him how you feel, because you do deserve support from your boyfriend. However, he probably feels stuck in the middle. This other bloke just sounds like trouble, if you apologize to this man, then maybe he'll explain if you have done something wrong. If he's sending you nasty emails save them and show them to your boss/boyfriend.
Maybe he's jealous because you're closer to your boyfriend than him? Imagine your best friend being with someone, and not spending as much time with you. Maybe you could invite him out to dinner with his girlfriend (if he has one).
But good luck.
2007-03-27 10:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by thissideofxbrightness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 19:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by lueck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend's pal is doing this around him and he does nothing maybe it would be good to get rid of him. If he is not tell your boyfriend and see were that goes...
2007-03-27 10:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are right,u deserve support. but i think the guy is jelous. and guys are gonna take up 4 eachother first.
2007-03-27 10:22:26 · answer #5 · answered by milissa h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your BFs friend is pizzed because he wanted to date you. Either that or he's into your BF and was in love with him himself and you came along and ruined everything...
2007-03-27 10:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by bodinibold 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋