okay I met this guy on the internet a little over a year ago and we kinda hit it off right away and i went to see him once and we talked on the phone alot and i wasn't honest about somethings because i didn't want to scare him away but i ended up hurting him alot and we haven't talked in almost two months and i miss him like crazy i think about him all the time i want to call him but im scared too and another thing is that he lives in a state that i'll will be flying to next month to visit some relatives and he lives about an hour away from where i will be and i really want to see him since i haven't seen him in a year but i don't know if i should call him or if i should just stop wishing that i never hurt him and just let him move on with his life.. what should I do?
2007-03-27 10:14:17 · 9 answers · asked by nicole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats a tough one... I guess it just depends on how bad you hurt this guy and what you weren't honest about. if you two haven't spoken in 2 months maybe you should just let him go so you don't hurt him anymore. good luck with whatever you decide :)
2007-03-27 10:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a call,send him an email or you could even send him a card in the mail...
just be straight with him,and tell him your sorry for what you did,you have been thinking about him,and you will be visiting the area and you were wondering if there would be a chance you could get together...
Honesty is the best policy !!!
good luck
2007-03-27 10:20:57 · answer #2 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over. You only saw him 1 time over a year ago and you lied about things and hurt him. He hasn't spoken to you for 2 months because he doesn't want to talk to you anymore. Stop wishing- learn not to lie, learn to be honest, and move on. He's probably met someone new anyway.
2007-03-27 10:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You said you met him in person, correct? I think you should keep trying, maybe send him an email or a text message once a week, just keep saying your sorry, telling and showing him you'll still be around and really mean it.
2007-03-27 10:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're free now, and really care for him, don't let that past event stand in your way. Who knows, this guy might be the love of your life. And you might just be the girl of his dreams. "If you see a chance take it".
2007-03-27 10:19:16 · answer #5 · answered by James R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him move on with his life, he doesn't need liars to make things more difficult. Why do you want to hurt him more, are you just a mean person?
2007-03-27 10:18:46 · answer #6 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Contact him and apologize to him in person then tell him you would like to continue your contact with him, all he can say is no, and if he does just move on.
2007-03-27 10:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by sweetladytease 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You met him on the internet?? I'd say just never talk to him again.
2007-03-27 10:18:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave him alone and let both of you get on with your lives
2007-03-27 10:26:37 · answer #9 · answered by JEANNE B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋