Divorced friend of mine is in her first real relationship since the split. The guy is living with her and paying her rent even though she owns the home. Question is, what do you think about the fact that she tells me that she refuses to tell him she loves him until HE SAYS IT FIRST. This woman is going on 46 or 47! I said to her "What kind of relationship do you have?" She said "Oh I know he loves me, he just won't say it." Now she's talking about having her tubes tied because she doesn't want to get pregnant. She said her boyfriend won't have a vasectomy because...get this...he said if something happens to his son, then no one will be left to carry on his name. But he's fine with HER getting her tubes tied. She doesn't realize that he'd have to be with someone else to create another child. He's younger than her but won't tell her his age.
Is this not crazy or what? Just want your opinions! Thanks!
2007-03-27 10:03:10 · 3 answers · asked by Tazzy G 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey I'm not into 'not letting' them do anything, it's just crazy and I wanted to post...thanks!
2007-03-27 10:13:40 · update #1
Totally crazy and a little unhealthy. Tell your friend to mature a little and let out her true feelings, also she should demand to know her own boyfriends age, thats just ridiculous
2007-03-27 10:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by Marray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I think she's right for not telling him her feelings quite yet -- but he might have said that too get out of getting the vasectomy. Let them have their thing if it doesn't work out at least her heart won't be broken.
2007-03-27 10:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by Okaydokay21 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she sounds like she doesn't care who she is with or any thing about them! let her make her own mistakes,she's old enough to know better
2007-03-27 10:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋