I really screwed up and lied BIG time. Now he won't talk to me. Will a plasma for his bedroom soften him up? Does this work with men? I know it would work for me.
2007-03-27 10:02:27 · 20 answers · asked by mrsjenniferring 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to buy your way back into his favor, he's not worth having.
2007-03-27 10:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its going to work for a little a while. The real problem still remains. And when he or you bring that up again the fighting going to occur again, and when you two are not talking and he brakes it off am sure him and his new girl are going to enjoy the plasma t.v. And by law you can't take it back because it was a gift. Instead of buying him things and thinking the real problem going to go away, educate yourself on relationships that would help you and help grow and as your learning you will understand a more deal then just going out buying him gifts. Don't do it. Dr. Laura C. Schlessinger has some really good books out easy to read and right to the point. Start off by reading ten stupid things couples do to mess up their relationship reading that book will go a long way with your issue with what you did and him.
2007-03-27 10:23:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I am sure he would like a plasma... that wont heal the damage done. The best thing is to admit what you did and apologize to him... then give him time to get over it. If he cares about you.. he will soften up but it will take allot of work on your part to earn the trust back.
2007-03-27 10:10:18 · answer #3 · answered by Dawwg_E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how low he is. It might work. But, trust is a very hard thing to get back. And just buying things doesn't always cover the lies up. I hopeit all turns out well. Just think about how you would feel if he lied to you a lot, then jst bought you stuff to cover it all up. Thats kinda like he can go out and do stuff with another girl then come home with a present for you and it will all be okay.
2007-03-27 10:07:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, try this instead!
Here's something creative that will be appreciated and you will have fun doing:
Make up a crossword puzzle and have all the hints be personal inside moments and jokes that only you two would know about. Put it on a poster board and add some clipart and some pictures to it!
The crossword puzzle could be time consuming and a bit frustrating ... you could do the same idea with a WORDSEARCH or WORDFIND puzzle.
Put your computer skills to work! Use Excel, get clipart from Yahoo Images Search, copy them, and reformat them, use a gluestick to put on posterboard.
Use graph paper, and pictures from magazines if you are not as good on the computer, and it will give it a homemade feeling.
2007-03-27 16:13:47 · answer #5 · answered by Reserved 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'd say it wouldn't. You'd be out a lot of money and probably for no reason. If he's a jerk he'd accept the gift and then still not have anything to do with you, if he's a nice guy he'd probably not accept the gift. Either way it would be pointless to spend so much money. And a relationship that is worth it can not be bought with money.
2007-03-27 10:08:35 · answer #6 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt want the plasma, can I have it? I will date you! lol Kidding! NO, make him jealous beyond all reason. Or act really upset around him all the time. Dont talk, he will soften up.
2007-03-27 10:07:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he offered you such an high priced present, then it in all risk skill he misses you. besides the shown fact that, don't be so rapid to dismiss the reality that he reported he does not want to be in a dating with you desirable now. risk is he nevertheless has some issues he needs to artwork out for himself. purely wait and notice and supply it time.
2016-11-23 19:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by glauser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO...
that may even make it worse cuz that cant undo the damage done
just give time for him to cool off and apologize at the right time when hes in the right mood
then reel it in
:D
2007-03-27 10:06:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really should think about what your saying! your only saying it would work for you because you obviously care for this guy.
if he truely cares for you it won't take a plasma t.v.
just some time, hurt feelings sometimews take a minute
2007-03-27 10:08:15 · answer #10 · answered by TIGGER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buying forgiveness is not a good thing. Give him time and try again with talking and admitting you were wrong.
2007-03-27 10:08:05 · answer #11 · answered by ladyc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋