Picture the scene girls ....
There's a guy who likes you and although you like him you've never been attracted to him.
Is there anything that guy can do that would change your mind about him: for e.g
nice clothes
being funny
having money
treating you
getting on well with your friends etc etc
other suggestions of your own are welcome!!!! - If you have any of course!!
2007-03-27 10:01:29 · 20 answers · asked by Smarty 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All of those things. I fell in love with my boyfriend 3 months after meeting him when I saw how confident and funny he was with his friends. Everyone seemed to like him and I saw him in a completely different light. Having money is not that important. It's good that he gets on well with my friends too. He pays me lots of compliments too, which is really nice.
2007-03-27 10:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can happen, but it won't work with all girls. Check what kind of things catch her eye, or what kinds of guys she's been attracted to in the past. Being funny and confident is always a plus, but just make sure it's not forced- We can alwayssss tell! Being a gentleman works with all women. Also, seeing other girls attracted to you can always spark a little competition/jealousy. Wingmen/women do work! Go for trying to emphasize/magnify certain aspects of your personality, but don't change yourself- It really isn't worth the effort.
2007-03-27 17:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by Sia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you brush your teeth every day, take a shower now and again,have a smile on your face and can dance, you may have my number any time! Most girls love to dance. And above all, if you are at a party, make sure to dance with the older ladies as well . Ignore th e 17 year babes, they get enough attention as it is. And THEN, my friend; the next day you call her and thank her for å wonderfull evening. .
2007-03-27 17:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by unanski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything too obvious like clothes and money will more likely put her off. Best bet is not to try any more, and, as strange as this may sound, start dating other women - some women can't help but want what they think they can't have, and she is more likely to see your appeal as a boyfriend if she sees you treating someone else well. And if she doesn't, then you may meet someone else you like in the process so it could still work out well.
2007-03-27 17:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by Alisar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out first if she says no then fine but don't change yourself if she says yes then take her to a nice romantic restaurant but don't take flowers or chocs that shows a try hard and its cheesy these days take her a nice pair of ear rings or a necklace something that looks like you have put in some effort then once you have eaten ask her what she would like to do then and go from there but most of all listen and show interest in what she is saying to you then she will see the nice guy in you its not looks with some woman its brains and consideration good luck hope it works out
2007-03-27 17:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl can definately fall for a bloke by having fun with him! in a full blown relationship physical attraction becomes secondary! I think showing her a good time, treating her well, and being funny are your best bets! but be subtle - beware of coming accross as desperate as desperation is very unattractive! good luck!
2007-03-27 17:10:25 · answer #6 · answered by caz5316 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be yourself and make it known to her that you like her in a special way that a guy likes girls but ask her plan as day could she ever date a man like you and what it would take to change her mind and what she likes about you and what she dont.....good luck if she dont appreciate a man who is good to her and wants to give her the world in the palm of her hands maybe if she seen you with another lady she would appreciate you in that way.....
2007-03-27 17:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by att_i_tude2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. Maybe my feelings would change on their own over time, but probably not. Anything that the guy could do would probably make me like him less, since it would make me uncomfortable
2007-03-27 17:07:18 · answer #8 · answered by Cybele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to another country and just send me a postcard now and then cos someone pushy like that would really do my head in.
2007-03-27 17:18:27 · answer #9 · answered by yahoobloo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry, but I don't think so. It's not something anyone can control, and if the spark isn't there, it isn't there.
Short of heroically saving a kitten's life right in front of her eyes...
2007-03-27 17:07:24 · answer #10 · answered by Dogsbody 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋