i like a boy but this boy is going out with my x best friend i am not her friend now. and since i am not her friend she told my crush
(her boyfriend) not to talk to me. he knows that i like him . and now since my x friend told her boyfriend (my crush) not to talk to me he is not talking to me. i need ur help. can u please help me ? what should i do ?
2007-03-27 10:01:05 · 7 answers · asked by Sonia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks for all of the people who gave me great advice. i hope it works
2007-03-27 10:22:08 · update #1
Honey... Sit down and think about this. Is he realy worth agonizing over? In my opinion, no man is. You need to see that you are beautiful. You are SO much better than this. Pick yourself up, take a good look in the mirror, and move on. I know it will be hard, but think about the person you want to be. Do you realy want to be someone who is crushed by rejection? I believe in destiny. If he isn't into you, then it means you two aren't meant to be. Take it as a blessing that you found out now, instead of much later down the road.
The future is shaped by the small decisions we make today. Decide that you are going to be strong. Believe in yourself. I went through the same thing as you a few years back. At times I didn't know how I would make it through. I didn't even have the selfeasteem to stand up and move on. You know what I did? I pretended. I pretended that I had the most beautiful sefleasteem in the world. I pretended that nothing could hurt me. I pretended that I was happy I knew the truth and I could move on. If you pretend long enough, one day you will wake up and realize that it's not an act any longer. That's when you become the person God meant for you to be.
If you have any other questions, or if you just need someone to talk to, please email me.
Good Luck Sweetheart!
2007-03-27 10:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by Mara Jade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that. You need to forget about it, start focusing on other guys.(I know that sounds easier than it is). I had a girl that I liked forever and we never clicked, it just wasn't meant to be. It sucked at the time, but the hurt goes away when you meet someone who really wants to be with you. You'll find that, look around, I'll bet their's some guys that are interested in you that you don't even notice cuz you were wrapped around this guy. You'll see :)
2007-03-27 10:05:06 · answer #2 · answered by ruttster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh baby they more fish in the sea and you'll fine someone better. Now just act like your not hurt around them. And get involve in something else and you will start to see that he's going to want to know what you been up too, and all that, but play the game right and before you know it you will fine someone special.
2007-03-27 10:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by honeybunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get over him and move one. You don't need guys like that. There are better guys out there.
2007-03-27 10:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by Hello K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play the game, move on and enjoy yourself...
Good Luck,
2007-03-27 10:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by semi273hemi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a jerk that is easily manipulated, find someone else.
2007-03-27 10:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Twinkle♥Toes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well kick her but
or
try to flurt with him in frunt of her then kick her but!
2007-03-27 10:11:01 · answer #7 · answered by edgar b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋