she hates her husband and is older than me.
2007-03-27 09:57:42 · 25 answers · asked by Jimmy M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope..
She needs to get a divorce first..
Sometimes, husbands can be dangerous..
2007-03-27 10:00:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but be realistic.
1) She is married, and your dating her is going to count against her in any divorce. Your relationship will never advance if she can't ever get out of that other relationship.
2) She probably has a list if 500 other reasons she is dating you besides she is "in love" with you. If you can't deal with the fact that "loving you" is probably item 499 on that list you'd better run.
3) If you get your *** beaten, punched, or sued; if you catch an STD or if you are threatened or otherwise treated beadly remember that you volunteered for it. Human males don't share female companionship well.
4) If you have to keep it a secret, then say "no thanks." to the whole thing. No love is worth the pain of having to hide something.
5) Use protection ALWAYS. If you knock her up, you are in for a world of EMO PAIN.
Best Scenario: Get her to have a seperation. Have papers drawn up that specify the right to see other people. Date her for a while and see if she can handle the non-wifeness for a while. If she thrives then move towards helping her through a divorce.
2007-03-27 10:08:30 · answer #2 · answered by MrDave2176 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the straightforward answer could be NO - yet then i'm married LOL . i believe that once you're making that 'promise' to at least one yet another that that's a real purpose that even with the up's and downs of any relationship that you artwork by those mutually - bringing a third celebration into the equation potential there is not any room for engaged on some thing! For me, no matter if separated, i could opt for to make the attempt to get my existence so as, grieve one relationship and be sparkling about the position I had made blunders (there are 2 human beings in a relationship = both make blunders) in the previous wondering about somebody else!
2016-12-02 22:06:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not the smartest of ideas. Even if she tells you she hates her husband, there could still be ties there. I mean, imagine if you got into things with her heavy, only to find she wants to try and work things out with him. Plus, there could be a huge backlash if he finds out of an affair on her part. You can't really know their intentions or how they'll act later on the line, so it's really better to either move on, or wait to see if she seperates/divorces the guy.
2007-03-27 10:04:33 · answer #4 · answered by Sia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because if the husband finds out and really likes her that could be bad for you .also if you break up with her and she was in love with you there is no telling what she will say to her husband.if she really likes you and hates her husband then why dosent she ask for a divorce and you could continue to date but if she is not really in love with you could just be a playmate so she can feel younger like you.
2007-03-27 10:05:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO,NO,NO don't be a fool. If she hates her husband they why is she not divorce? Don't get involve. Maybe her husband loves her and she doesn't love him, but it not fare to him. Tell her go back to her husband and try working it out and get counseling. Because if they have kids if not fare to the kids.
2007-03-27 10:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by honeybunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. It can't end well. If the husband is jealous, it could be dangerous, and at the very least you could end up as a co-respondent in divorce court. If you thought it was okay, you wouldn't be asking the question.
2007-03-27 10:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by Jacky S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not ok. Of course she is going to say that she hates him. She wants her cake and eat it to. If she hated him, she wouldnt be with him! Now, if you dont care that she is married then more power to you and her. But if you care or if you think you will care in the future, then let her know. If there is hesitation in her leaving him, then you will know she doesnt hate him and will never leave him.
2007-03-27 10:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by Tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as she divorces her husband it's fine to date her. Until then, you are going to get yourself into a whole lot of trouble. Wait until she leaves and if she doesn't leave, let her go.
2007-03-27 10:02:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to divorce him then possibly pursue you you havent heard anything of the stories where husbands kill the lovers c'mon don't let the kitty kat make you think too soon
2007-03-27 10:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by Diva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋