physical attraction ;for women is the mans looks most important or intellectuality????

Question

do u want your man with good shape body ,and looks,or his thinking ,or a mixture of here and there ,come on women tell what u like in a guy honestly ,????

Answer 1

I honestly need a guy whom I find attracting, but he most of all needs to have a good personnality or it won't last long.
so definitly both

Answer 2

I want him to be able to do all those things that I said in the answer I gave to Centurio. I will not be looking at him if and when we are playing twister and I have my legs throwed up over his shoulders, but I will be looking at him after that. So I won't lie and say that looks don't matter, but I will say that it is just part of it. For me the intellectual is the most important, and the knowing that he is really there for me if he says he is, even if he is 1,000 or 2,000 or 3,000 miles away. The excitement and mystery of it all, the intrigue, the risk he is taking for me. That fascinates me, and I would follow an ugly puppy if I figured that it might be able to bite my worst enemy if I needed it too if I couldn't, or get me what I thought I really wanted, but I wouldn't really choose for that and often that doesn't work out quite the way I might have wanted it too and then and then. LOL Just remember this though beauty actually is in the eye of the beholder.

Answer 3

Every woman is different just as all men are different. But I prefer someone who is definitely confident, has a good head on his shoulders, also physical attraction is one of the most important keys to starting a relationship. Not to sound shallow but it's a scientifically proven fact, if two people aren't attracted to each other they will not mate. I also like a man that knows how to communicate and is honest.

Answer 4

You notice physical attraction first, everybody does. Once you start talking though, a bad personality can totally ruin a physically perfect guy. Intelligence really isn't a factor, I think more maturity is the quality I'm looking for. I've met lots of intelligent men who still need to grow up.

Answer 5

I like a mixture of both a smart and good looking guy. I personally have to be physically attracted to someone for me to even want to get to know him intellectually. But you cant be cute and dumb. No girl wants to date a dummy.

Answer 6

Well a combination but I can dig the whole intellectual thing more however to be sexually attracted despite their looks it holistically it has to be sex appeal their confidence in themselves that can make or break the most physically unattractive people because even "pretty" people who lack confidence aren't as attractive as a person who has found balance.

Answer 7

You want to be attracted to your mate..but if they can satisfy you intellectually then what will you have later on in life when you are in your golden years?? I don't think all women go for the money thing..I think the ones who do give the rest of us a bad name. I married my hubbie when he had nothing. Now together we have built a good life..

Answer 8

For me a man's integrity and intelligence are first, however, grooming, and looks are important, too. I do not respond to "drop dead gorgeous" guys 'cause they are always looking for the "look" in other women's eyes and want the next hottest version of themselves.

Answer 9

Well physical attraction is the way the looks you are attracted too...Some hot guys just need to not talk....

Shhhhhh honey don't speak you will ruin it

Answer 10

Looks are a bonus obviously, but i like a guy with a great personality :) (i like him to be funny, sarcastic, rude, romantic, honest etc) but everyones different :)