I just met this man , we had sex and I am really feeling him. But I have a boyfriend and I am not happy with him . The other man wants me to have a child for him what sould i do?
2007-03-27 09:34:30 · 12 answers · asked by Alicia S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get some self respect, girl!
No one says you should stay with a man just to spare his feelings, but to leave him for a man you have had sex with once while involved with your boyfriend???
Seriously, try to be able to have an identity without it being contingent upon the man you have in your life.
You should want a child for yourself and share that with a good mate/good provider/good family man, etc....
Try to be happy with yourself before you involve other people... What about what you want!?!?!
2007-03-27 09:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by ivy9toes 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, if you aren't happy with your current boyfriend, you should leave regardless of this other man. He deserves someone who is going to truly love him and not just stay with him for security.
Second, why would you consider having a child for a man that you just met? Sounds to me like you haven't really thought this through. A child is a lifetime commitment and a tie to someone forever. It is hard enough having children with someone you are married to, let alone a man that you just met. Truly think about this before you go ahead and do it.
2007-03-27 09:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump them both. The other wants a kid but what about all the stuff that goes with it or is he just gonna be around for the birth?
You should go boyfriend-less for about a year. That means staying out of the sack. Maybe during the year you might meet some guy you like without bedding him. Then start getting into the social scene again.
Every guy out there is not a creep. Believe me...
2007-03-27 09:41:45 · answer #3 · answered by Chef dad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say break it off with the current boyfriend. But then you added that he wants you to have a child with him..What?? You barely know this man..Get to know him and in time maybe go that route. But right now..I think I'd simmer down. Break it off with the boyfriend but do some major thinking before you "Have a child for him" thats just weird..
2007-03-27 09:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa whoa whoa!! First, if you're not happy with your boyfriend you should just gently tell him. This other guy sounds, unserious. You should tell your boyfriend that you cheated, and you need to move on. But as for this other guy saying "he wants you to have a child for him" and you two just had sex... from what you sound like it's kidna early to say something like that. Don't rush into anything.
2007-03-27 09:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by LoveisfirE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe e-mail your "boyfriend" the question you just posted. He'll get the message that he's out and have all the commnets from the people dogging on your cheating a$$.
2007-03-27 09:43:16 · answer #6 · answered by dynamicduo79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's irresponsible to even consider a child at this point and makes me question his maturity (and yours frankly)....and I would say LEAVE YOUR MAN - noone deserves being cheated on. Let's hope it doesn't happen to you!
2007-03-27 09:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by caraanne2005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if your really that unhappy, then leave him. because staying with him would just hurt the both of you more. if your new man makes you happy, then be with him. but dont rush things. take your time.
2007-03-27 09:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by DyMeNsTaR127 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with UR life just leave him, He will not be so happy when he finds out you have been cheating on him.
2007-03-27 09:42:13 · answer #9 · answered by Confused ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating the other guy is using you as a breeder not a lover your cheating
2007-03-27 09:42:22 · answer #10 · answered by Grand pa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋