How can I get to know a guy, meet him better if we don`t get a chance to hang out together too often?

Question

He is in my college, we`re i class together 3 times a week, but he rarely hangs out with the rest of the group because he`s busy, works full time and attends classes.
There is mutual interest and this has been going on for almost a month, flirting during breaks between lectures and all.
Today he was absent and I was dying to ask his best friend where he was, but I haven`t. I really missed him.
I`d love to get to know him better as a person, make friends and if we develop stronger feelings, why not more.
He always waits to say goobye after a class and looks for me to say hello when he comes in...lovely man.
How can i get to know him.I`d ask him out, but i`d like to meet him him better before.
Any good idea?or a silly one?anything?

Answer 1

You're ON the best tool to meet a busy person! And you have the perfect excuse to message him... those classes you have in common! If your college has it's own email system you probably already have at least one of his email addresses... and he missed a class... offer to share your notes or bring him up to date on what he missed! And even the busiest person needs a break periodically while studying or whatever they are doing.. IM's fit great into busy schedules. Eventually while chatting an opportunity will come up to mention coffee or something after a class.. :)

Answer 2

Find out where he works and go and drop in "accidentally" if it's someplace public.

Find out where he studies. If it's in the library go there. If not, ask him to help you out with a common class (even if you don't need the help).

Answer 3

find out who his friends are, make them your friends, then go out in a group. that's the best way to get to know someone, there's not all that awkwardness of being on a date.

Answer 4

get a bunch of your friends together and go to the movies ask him to go to. sit next to him in the theater. afterwards tell him how you feel.