what's the best way to please my man?

Question

he's a virgin and i want his first time to be his best. i already have a few things in mind, but i was wondering if any of you had some ideas?

Answer 1

a BJ is F'ing awesome but nothing is better than PUS$Y sex.

if you are clean and are on birth control...do it without a condom. it will blow his mind when...hehehe, he blows his load in you!!!

i didnt have to wear a rubber for my first time and it was the best feeling shooting my load inside my girlfriend!

my first time was killer. she gave me a light BJ, then stroked me a little then got on top of me and rode my d!ck slowly until i came.

dont let him pump you as he will be awkward and may feel self conscious...if he feels insecure, then he may not be able to get off. that could be a disappointing first time.

hey, youre a cool chick! hey...wait, i'm a virgin too!!!!!!!! hehehe.

Answer 2

Make sure the time and place are perfect!

Then make sure his first time is followed by his second and third in the same hour or two!

Enjoy but be careful and use protection!

Answer 3

Considering it's his first time you should "make love" to him. Everything should be romantic, sweet and sensual. He will remember his first time for the rest of his life. Now, the second time you can................. tell him to put on his seat belt.

Answer 4

Keep it slow.. The slower and longer the first time the better it is!!

Answer 5

He's getting laid for the first time? He's already deliriously happy. anything else is gravy.

Answer 6

Get him off and as soon as he starts to nut, slob on him until he shakes and whimpers

Answer 7

Well, the first thing I would ask you is what I ALREADY know the answer to, based on your 360 profile, which makes it obvious you're either still in high school, or at best in College. Eiether way, this indicates LACK OF LIFE EXPERIENCE! My question is, ARE YOU AND HE MARRIED? I know the answer to that.....NO!

Therefore, WHY are you inquiring about SINNING? At this point, based on how you believe "religion is bogus", you're shutting me down, and that's your choice! But it's still a fact, what you are contemplating is called FORNICATION! Who says so? GOD DOES! The Bible makes it clear that ANY sex outside of HOLY MATRIMONY is wrong, because it's A VIOLATION of God's law! This is NOT a matter of mere "rules and regulations", but rather, of acknowledging GOD'S RIGHTFUL AUTHORITY OVER YOU! Also, of COMMON SENSE!

Your Creator made you, and very beautifully, I might add! I saw your pics! You really are a lovely girl! WHY then would you want to go and CHEAPEN that feminine beauty by engaging in the most intimate of ALL acts, that of sexual relations? Don't you understand, as A GIRL ESPECIALLY, that what you do in having sex with a man is OPEN UP THE MOST PERSONAL PART OF YOU.....your NAKEDNESS.....to a man that gives you NO CAUSE to believe that he truly LOVES YOU based on the fact that there is absolutely NO COMMITMENT on his part TO YOU?

You may say, "But I KNOW he loves me!" Oh? DO YOU??? Let's say you "give him what he wants", or in this case, you TAKE FROM HIM what should only be given to HIS WIFE. So then, HOW do you know that this "relationship" will remain PERMANENT? What GUARANTEE do either of you have?

The fact is, dear girl, that what you are proposing here is PLAYING WITH EACH OTHERS EMOTIONS AND BODIES, and thinking you can do so WITHOUT CONSEQUENCES! But contrary to what "the entertainment industry" and all your "friends" are telling you, about how "it's OK" because "EVERYONE is doing it!", I've got news for you! Young lady, there is A PRICE to pay for playing the "lust game", and that is THE LOSS of your sense of DIGNITY AND WORTH as a woman! Trust me on this! When a man and woman who are NOT married engage in sex in ANY form, it builds, not A BOND OF LOVE between them, but a WALL OF RESENTMENT, MISTRUST, AND DISRESPECT! You can think all you want that you'll somehow "beat the odds" on this, but YOU WON'T!

Just check out HOW MANY others you know PERSONALLY who have sex when NOT married and end up KEEPING a really GOOD relationship! They "break up", and they CAN'T STAND each other! Right? And that's because 2 people who have sex and ARE NOT MARRIED, all they are doing is USING each other! And USERS ARE LOSERS!

But hey! I've only covered the HUMAN side of this! Did I mention "STD'S"??? That's called GOD'S JUDGMENT ON SIN! When God said, "Fornicators shall not inherit the kingdom of God", and that "whoremongers shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone, which is the second death", did you think He was joking???

A word from PERSONAL experience: my wife and I didn't "go all the way" BEFORE we got married, but we did ENOUGH that it led to the DOWNFALL of our marriage YEARS later! Because like I said, fornication builds A WALL between you! It causes the guy to NOT VALUE her, because she's "easy" (rather than "hard", ie, WORTH WAITING FOR!); and the girl DOESN'T TRUST HIM.....because he DOESN'T RESPECT HER enough to see HOW VALUABLE she is!

You and all the others who read this, go ahead and laugh it off as "religious ranting", but THE FACT is that our whole society is FULL of the kind of really SAD STORIES that I'm talking about here......where guys and girls are TOTALLY MESSED UP in their thinking and actions TOWARDS EACH OTHER! Just look at all the BROKEN HOMES, DIVORCES, ABUSE, CHILD MOLESTATION, RAPE, BITTERNESS, HATRED, ANGER, ABORTION (MURDER), and ALL THE KIDS suffering as the result of PEOPLE'S SELFISHNESS! All because we believe that, "If it feels good, DO IT!" makes more sense than, "BECAUSE I LOVE YOU, I won't......till marriage!" TRAGIC SHAME!

So I forewarn you......if you choose to do this, you do so at YOUR OWN PERIL! Because SIN has a way of TAKING ITS TOLL that you NEVER expected! You think it'll all "be OK", but DOWN THE LINE.....just watch! That fantasy will end REAL QUICK! What you need is a "relationship" with JESUS CHRIST, who loves you and died on the cross for your sins! But without HIM (and he IS real and His word IS true!), you will NEVER be able to resist temptation! It is GOD that made that beautiful gift of our sexuality, but He made it FOR MARRIAGE! Otherwise, rather than being a BEAUTIFUL EXPRESION OF LOVE, it ends up being an UGLY EXPRESSION OF LUST! And the choice is YOURS! If you REALLY want him to RESPECT YOU, then please, DON'T just "do it"!

Answer 8

uh isnt it obvious? you said he's a virgin that means you want to have sex with him.

Answer 9

If he is a virgin, any sex act will make him ecstatic! Several in a row , well..........

Answer 10

if you are is first you dont have to be good. he will remember you for the rest of his life.