I'm hispanic, i've had a white girlfriend before but she didn't really hang out with my family because I wasn't sure she would understand our culture, I'd go to her house and her parents would be so nice and educated and quiet. She would come to my house and there would be 30 people home partyin, yellin, kids dancin in a corner, the dogs runnin up and down the house with loud spanish music in the background and my parents speakin spanish to her and givin her latin food she never ate before. We'll thats how we live, but i kind of felt bad because i thought she felt out of place. so my question is: Do white people feel comfortable when they go to a Latino household?
2007-03-27 08:53:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
since bluestar in such a retard and doesnt get my point when i say white people i mean: CAUCASIAN, ANGLOS.
2007-03-27 09:00:26 · update #1
I dont feel uncomfortable. My last boyfriend was hispanic and his mom and dad dont know any english so i would communicate with them in the little bit of spanish i know. I actually liked being over at his house instead of mine! Because of him, i actually started listening to reggaeton and other types of music. I also work with a bunch of hispanics so i feel fine around all of them. & i have actually learned alot of spanish from them and from my spanish class.
2007-03-27 08:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by one_thing 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that would bother me is my own ignorance of Spanish. Reason being, that I might feel self-consciense thinking people are saying things about me because I don't understand it. If I knew Spanish, it would not bother me in the least b/c I love to party. We have Mexican rodeos all the time where I live and it is so much fun but I can't understand a word that they are saying.
2007-03-27 16:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by K~E~G 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Im hispanic,and my hubby is white.And i gotta say WHOA! the first couple of monthes my hubby did feel out of place,and i felt a little weird.But within time he got used to the Family,and food my mom used to make him eat...lol But i think its great.He loves my family,and feels like one of the family to.Hehe..hes learning to speak Spanish.Everytime we go visit them he learns a new word..lol so yeah she shoudl get used to it.Whithin time.Let her get Comfortable first.Then there shouldnt be a issue.Good luck!!
2007-03-27 16:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm white and my boyfriends have been black no Latino but I never felt uncomfortable about going to their house. I guess I always knew that the family accepted me and never felt uncomfortable...
2007-03-27 15:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by J K 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you ignorant fool i'm hispanic and i have pale *** skin and auburn hair with bright blue eyes-i'm white by appearance-so what are you exactly trying to say about latinos
2007-03-27 15:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by amanda 1 · 0⤊ 6⤋