What were the events leading up to the situation? How did the guy initiate this? What were the thoughts in your head?
2007-03-27 08:52:38 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me just tell you that the ones that answered no are either lying or are very young.
I'm surprised I didn't see more yeses on this list. There are little plastic things called condoms that were invented some time ago that help protect from STD's and pregnancy (along with birth control for the latter).
I know a lot of single women that prefer to be single because it fits in with their career goals. These women are strong and independent and don't need a man for anything but sex. Sex is for pleasure not just for procreating.
Every once in a while is different than scoping the bars and taking someone home every night though.
Stereotypes are a sad thing. It's perceived that a guy can have sex nonchalantly with whomever and it's okay, but when a woman uses a man for her pleasure and then discards him she's a whore. Wake up people.
2007-03-27 09:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by TC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
22 yrs ago, yes. We met in a bar...one look from across the room and I was hooked. I wasn't in the game for a relationship, I'd just gotten out of a nasty divorce. He was absolutely gorgeous! He is dead now. He was shot a yr after I had met him by a jealous lover. (woman) So sad! NO, I didn't catch an STD. I was VERY lucky! He did call me 3 times after that night but I knew he was the type to cheat...too good looking for his own good! NEVER again though...too dangerous out there!
2007-03-27 08:57:58 · answer #2 · answered by luv2bake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have. Usually when this happens its in a party senerio and liqour is involved. It is almost impossible to just bang some chick you dont know without at least haveing some conversation first. I was out drinking with some girlfriends and then a group of guys apprached us and asked us if we were up for a party at thier place. We were all togethor and drunk so we agreed and then after sevral more drinks, danceing and talking I ended up alone with this guy in his room and he was complimenting me and listening to my problems and giveing me constructive advice and one thing led to another and we ended up in the sac. Usually in order to have impulse sex with someone you dont know you have to be drunk, horny, and complimenting this person and listening to them. You would have to be drunk aswell or else it would be scummy to take advantage. Basically I am not sure how it really gets to happening but its all in your words and how you present yourself. . . and tons of liqour.
2007-03-27 09:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in cancun and coming out of a bar really wasted...there was this guy standig outside and he asked me if i needed a taxi so i said yes. Well instead he took me to his house and you know the rest of the story...he was hot so i was like OH what the heck, i wasnt even thinking about it. It just happened and i loved the way it happened. It was like dangerous and it was hot, it was cancun, it was like 3 in the morning...
He just started like kissing me and i just liked the way he was kissing me and touching me...it was just great. I wasnt even thinking! Then he took me back to my hotel. No phone numbers being exchanged or anything. I know it was very high risk for me to have done that but I don't regret it. It was good and I even used protection.
But shhhhhhhhhhh what stays in Cancun...stays in Cancun!!!
2007-03-27 08:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by Dama 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes and when it gets like that it doesn't really matter what the guy does or doesn't do. All you want is sex. Only afterwards do you realize your mistake and feel bad. Unlike guys.
2007-03-27 08:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do not imagine searching at sunlight signs and indications could be precise. you'll could see if their moon is bothered because many times women who've casual sex with random human beings (if it truly is what you have become at) wade through from low self-worth.
2016-12-02 22:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nearly but then i thought about it and it isn't like the 60's nowadays things ain't as clean and safe as they used to be so id have to recline.
2007-03-27 08:57:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I needed it and I made him wear a condom. Met him at a bar did it in the womens rest room It was grand and I've never done it again and I don't regret it.
2007-03-27 08:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by Lovely Lady 27 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! Too scared of the STDs that are out there. I have too much respect for myself than to let that happen.
2007-03-27 08:56:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, never have. I do not believe in things like that. It makes the woman look cheap.
2007-03-27 08:56:35 · answer #10 · answered by Nancy M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋