I have an idea of what I am looking for in a man, and the qualities that I would like him to possess, but lately I've been asked out by several men who are not what I am looking for. I tell them no and go on my way. I'm starting to feel bad saying no all the time. Some people say that I am being to narrow in my search and I need to broaden my view. Others say, I doing the right thing and it is good to keep your focus on what you want. I'm confused. Which is it?
2007-03-27 08:50:03 · 4 answers · asked by i_luv_the_irish23 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is good to know what you want and not waste your time or theirs on what you do not want. But by you being too narrow in your search for Mr. Right, you just might be missing out on at least enjoying friendships with other people as well. You might want to take a serious look at what you think qualifies a guy to meet your standards. If you can see that what you are seeking is unrealistic, then you might want to change it. Best of luck to you!
2007-03-27 08:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your focus but don't set your standards so high that they are not attainable! I had this friend that wanted to marry a contractor because she wanted him to build her a house. Well my thing was why not find a good man with a good job and he can have you a house built! Do you get it! She was just wasn't thinking. Until I brought it to her attention she wasn't dating at all. Now she gets all the men and the attention. But at first everyone had labled her as snobbish!
2007-03-27 08:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by Tettypu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some day you could say no to the right man, and he could have been the most wonderful man you could have met, broaden your horizens.
2007-03-27 08:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by terryodell42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all,how old r u,and second of all i need a hook-up to
2007-03-27 08:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by bunny killa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋