do you think most of your 'guy' friends really just want to be friends?? Or do you think that, if given the chance, they would fall victim to the passion of the moment? And what about you? with your guy 'friends', is it really just an innocent relationship, or are you waiting for that day when the sparks fly???
2007-03-27 08:49:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay des, i would say let him know, he may have the same feelings for you and you will never know. Now if he starts another serious relationship it will be too late.
2007-03-27 09:03:58 · update #1
most of my guy friends are just friends.. we would never be bf and gf. there are only probably 3 that would jump at the opportunity, but im in a strong relationship right now so whatever. but before me and him were goin out, we were just friends for months and then the sparks flew...
2007-03-27 08:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by lillizzybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of my guy friends have made it known that they'd be more than happy to take it further if I'd just say the word, lol. Alot of guys have no problems being friends with benefits. But for me, I guess it would depend on the situation. I have had guy friends in the past that I was attracted to...but I wasn't willing to risk ruining the friendship if it didn't work out. Men and women can be 'just friends'...if the spark is there, you know immediately, I think, but alot of times you can just enjoy hanging out as pals and have it go no further.
2007-03-27 09:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by okwriting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes well some but not all of them
yes i do think if given the chance they would take advantage of the situation
umm ... i don't know about me actually
yah all my guy friends are just innocent and if sparks fly eventually i will follow if thats how i feel!~
2007-03-27 08:55:05 · answer #3 · answered by brittany bear! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL how funny you say that. I use to be friends with like 10-12 guys...I had sparks fly with a couple but only one of them one my heart...
I was with him for 5 years and became very close to his friends...
We broke up 3 years ago and I don't ever see his friends or my ex....
That was the only way I moved on...
2007-03-27 08:53:38 · answer #4 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest with you, a girl really does look for friendship but sometimes you do think if there could be more, but a girl knows when there will be more then just friends. Another thing it up to the girl if she would take the chance.
2007-03-27 08:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by only me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
waiting for the day till the sparks fly<3
2007-03-27 08:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm what you might call a womanly woman, it's very difficult for guys to want to be "just friends" with me. I've tried and failed, all except once. I have a guy friend that when we first met I thought he was cute and vise versa but we quickly learned that we are not each other's type. Now, we are such good friends that the thought of kissing him is like "ugh" kissing my brother.
2007-03-27 08:55:53 · answer #7 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I have guy friends who've always show respect to me but have admitted that, given to chance, they'd sleep with me. And, yes, I do have a couple of attractive guy friends who've tempted me but I wouldn't do anything b/c I could never see a long term relationship with them and would not want to ruin the friendship.
2007-03-27 08:54:32 · answer #8 · answered by Caribbean Belle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is true that men and women can be just friends I had a friend once he was really hotttt and I just couldn't find myself being with him that way it would totally ruin the relationship...i had this Friend once that had crush on a mutual friend of ours and they did it and after that they hated each other they fought and rarely ever talk now it's just not the sane after you add sex to the relationship especially if you are really good friends with that person and want to stay good friends some people do get lucky and they can stay just friends but I haven't seen it
2007-03-27 08:57:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a few guy friends that I very specifically only consider as my "guy" friends. But I also have a guys friend that I would immediantaly go for if I knew he liked me.
2007-03-27 08:53:07 · answer #10 · answered by Mɑrisɑ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋