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together for 2 yrs. broke up over a year ago and she will not let me be. when we broke up she stated she needed to do some "soul searching" i told her i wasnt over it and she would need to leave me be. when she moved out she took what she needed and left alot behind in which she would contact me about each month wanting to pick it up as a way to speak 2 me but then never would. a few months after i started dating someone else in which the ex found out and started contacting more. she would text with a question to start a conversation. she started calling me and telling me how she missed me and took me to dinner. at dinner she would ask questions about the new girl. i break up with new girl. we decided to go on a date and day of she says "just as friends right?" i cut her off and we dont talk for 3 months. then she shows up at my bar and we hook up (1st time since b/up) she says she wants to take me to dinner. she text about it and then just stops?!? what does she want with me??

2007-03-27 08:45:31 · 4 answers · asked by deester 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

i guess i should add a btw....
so btw, im still head over heals for this girl and could see myself growing old with her. i would love to get back together but hate all the games. im a gemini-cancer cusp. i am also gay and this was my ex's first serious girl relationship. after the break up shed see my friends and tell them she was straight but when i called her out about it would say she isnt anything.
always alot of words and no actions....

2007-03-27 09:06:12 · update #1

4 answers

Yeah, perhaps the two of you together is like paper and glue. She feels NO control when she is around you. This scares her away. But without you she is misrable. She goes back to you for a "fix". She is addicted to you. In order for the both of you to move on...you need to keep her AWAY from you. She will ultimately ruin any chances of YOU moving on with any other woman. CUT the ties...change ur number or have her's blocked. It's the only way...u'll be doing her a favor too. This will let her MOVE on as she shows you she wishes to do but hasn't the "will power" to stay away.

2007-03-27 08:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by luv2bake 4 · 0 0

Good thing you said scorpio. Scorpios are naturally psycho (no offense scorpios). But female scorpios are manipulative b*tches and if they lose the string the controlled you with on their finger, than they hold on to you tightly. Everything you do, they will make you feel guilty about it. You start thinking you really need them to live. Then you stick around them, they make you do anything they want. They become content. Some of the most two faced people are scorpios. Don't fall into her traps! Get out as fast as you can. And don't hook up with her (no matter how good she may be in bed).

2007-03-27 08:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by Isabella R 4 · 0 0

As a fellow Scorpio we can be a bit possessive, try and be Very firm with her, no more going out to dinner!! She is consciously playing a game with you!! She will keep on being persistent but she will finally get it if you show her that you are SERIOUS!!! Watch out because Scorpios do like Revenge!! and are Very good at it!

2007-03-27 08:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by Breann 5 · 0 0

shes just having a hard time with letting you go but she doesnt want to seem too obvious though she is

2007-03-27 08:50:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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