how can i detatch myself from someone?

Question

i want to have fun with this guy, but i dont want to get emotionally attatched because i know in the end i'll just get hurt. so what should i do?

Answer 1

friends with benefits!!! :D

Answer 2

Hmm, I've always found that Dr. Drew gives the best explanation for this phenomenon. Check it out:

"Q: Why can't women approach sex the same way as men?

Dr. Drew: Because women want something more. But they're being told that they don't need anything else.

It is the fundamental idea that they experience physical intimacy the same way. That's what our society tells us. That was the message of the sexual revolution: We are equal, it's all the same.

And it's not the same. It is NOT the same.

The sexual revolution--particularly the fact that women could have sex without fear of pregnancy, thanks to the birth-control pill--was never thought through in terms of teaching young women how to create stability in a relationship and find fulfillment in a relationship; it was all about having sex in the same way men have sex.

Women's brains are set up differently. But the whole women's movement maintains there's no difference between the sexes, which is a mistake. Women are the ones who get sold short. They expect they can be the same as men in relationships. But they have different needs and those needs have to be protected.

Women shouldn't expect to be able to behave like a man or to be gratified when they do.

For men, it's usually a mechanical act; it can be very unemotional. The biology points toward genetic diversity, to multiple partners. With a man, the commitment is to the physical encounter.

Adam: My take is a little different. It's not so much that all men think about is sex but that they think about themselves a lot. And part of thinking about yourself is thinking about you getting it on. To me, that's about yourself. I mean, it's not just all about sex, sex, sex. It's about you and someone else. It's about you and business, you and someone else having sex. This is why guys make worse parents. And it comes out in terms of sex, but really, when you think about it, guys are just doing their thing.

Dr. Drew: It's usually an aggressive, outwardly projecting thing. Outside the home, outside the self. It's a projection outward that women don't naturally, biologically, do.

Adam: A man can make a career of one-night stands. Sure, there are a lot of decent guys out there, but even decent guys still think about having sex regularly and that sex doesn't necessarily attach to a relationship.

Here's all you need to know about men. Why does it seem like every young rock musician and movie star gets himself into trouble with the ladies? Because he can."

Answer 3

Just don't think about it. Have fun with him. Hang out with others so that he's not the only person you can say you have fun with! Don't think about getting attached though cuz the more you do the more it will happen!

Answer 4

Don't have fun with this guy, there is no way to turn your feeling off.

Answer 5

spend time with him and let it happen if it happens then that means god wanted it to dont left that effect your emotions that is the best thing of dateing you learn from it to be more careful so just let it happen god bless you !!!

jessi !!

Answer 6

you should just hangout with him and see what happens and if you do get atached to him maybe you won't get hurt maybe you guys will go out or something

Answer 7

do friend things with him dont go out on dates with him and only do group activities together

Answer 8

Friends with benefits. Have self-control over yourself!!!!!!!!!

Answer 9

ya cant or just break up with him or him break up with u im serius