we act like bf and gf, we jus havent made it official. we dont want to rush into a relationship b/c we have both been hurt in the past. but we tell each other that we love each other.
2007-03-27 08:36:49 · 12 answers · asked by vannah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah you're a whore
2007-03-27 08:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are having sex with your friend then he has to be more than just a friend doesn't he. If your relationship is just built around sex then you don't have much of a future together apart from the sex. You need to get real and smell the flowers. You may end up getting hurt again. What wold he say if you said you were going to hold off on the sex for a while until you are sure about things, I mean his feelings, your feelings. Would he still be there for you as your friend, or perhaps he might find another friend who is going to have sex with him and just be his friend. Sex is more of a commitment than just friendship, it should be the ultimate expression of your love for one another. Good luck.
2007-03-27 08:42:43 · answer #2 · answered by Dr Paul D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did not give any info. on whether or not y'all are having sex but that's the ??? but if y'all are having sex that's JUST WRONG and as you've stated that y'all have been hurt in the past so just take things slow, take time to heal and learn to love again. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO RUSH INTO A RELATIONSHIP DON'T HAVE SEX AS THIS WILL ONLY DRAW THE BOTH OF YOU NEARER.
2007-03-27 08:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by tykky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No babe it is not wrong let me tell you me and my bf have been talkin for 7 months and for 4 of them months we were not dating just having sex but now he is my boy friend and i love him very much and he loves me very much even though we talked to other people we still did us ya dig so it is all ok we are all happy now and it was the best sex i ever had
2007-03-27 08:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by Kool- A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just using you for sex. he gets whatever he wants without the commitment of a relationship. if that is really what you want then stick with it. but if you don't like being used then move on to someone that really wants to be WITH you not just IN you.
2007-03-27 08:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to me its not wrong that you and your friend are having sex as long as both of yall agrees to the situation then everything is ok. i'm sort of in a situation like that but i had got tired of messing with him like that
2007-03-27 08:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by Angie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy on my softball team and I have sex every Thursday and we just leave it at that. Works for him and it works for me. Sex does not have to be a bad thing.
2007-03-27 08:40:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with that..it will develop into an "official" relationship when you both are ready for that
2007-03-27 08:40:57 · answer #8 · answered by *Mariah* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can have sex and not regret if he screws you over then no!!!
but remember guys are good at say the L word just to get some
i don't think it is bad.. i just think you also have to see the big picture
good luck
2007-03-27 08:40:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant move on in life without opening yourself up for heartbreak
2007-03-27 08:42:04 · answer #10 · answered by Star274009 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no if u both want to then go rite ahead!
2007-03-27 08:40:05 · answer #11 · answered by rickyzboo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋