Ok so theres this girl that took me to a dance, and I normally go to her softball games, but the dance was kind of akward and even though I tried to contact her I haven't heard back. Should I still go to her game even though she might be trying to avoid me, I still want to go to see my other friend who is on the varsty team that plays after them.
2007-03-27 08:35:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just go, but act like youre there more for your other friend than for her, if she ignores you at the game, then you know she is not interested, but if she says hi or whatever then maybe she has just been too busy to call you back
2007-03-27 08:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by puppyluv 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since your friend plays after them, maybe you could show up towards the end of the girls game and say to her, Hey I came to want so-so play next, I would of come for your whole game, but since I didn't hear back from you, I didn't want you think I was stalking you. Is everything okay or would you like me to leave you be.
Now everything is out in the open
2007-03-27 15:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by 20+ years and still in-love! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May go halfway through the game? If she asks why you came you said you are waiting for your other friend to play. And, if she asks you why you were late, you can make some excuse for being a bit late. It might help to answer some of your questions...
2007-03-27 15:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, go see your other friend play. You don't stop seeing other people because someone else might be there. Maybe she hasnt' had a chance to get back to you, or maybe she doesn't want to.. either way, no reason to stop seeing your other friend play. Just go! If she talks to you.. talk to her, if not, just go as you planned to see your other friend.
2007-03-27 15:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you do anything to piss her off? maybe shes not sure where you stand. i think you should still go to the game. maybe go for the end of her game and then catch you other friends game. make a point of it to say hi to the other friend so she might get a little humbled if she thinks your there just for her. indifference baby, it always works.. (trust me im in sales, lol)
2007-03-27 15:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by SuperAdmin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go! talk to her and if u notice that shes not interested then just mention that u came to c ur friend and maybe "didnt know she would be there too" or something like that, its the perfect way out of a weird situation
good luck
2007-03-27 15:44:04 · answer #6 · answered by Finn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah still go.....if she feels akward she might tell you. And make sure that you go and talk to your other friend too so if she does feel akward she knows that you weren't just there for her.
2007-03-27 15:39:30 · answer #7 · answered by jcss_003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gee, teen love was "awkward"? Sounds pretty much par for the course. It's fine... everything in HS is awkward. If you still like her, go!
2007-03-27 15:40:48 · answer #8 · answered by ms_coktoasten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do what you really want -i would go to the varsity game and if that girl that is maybe avoiding you sees you- then talk to her and ask what's up
2007-03-27 15:40:35 · answer #9 · answered by amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, go! don't try to talk to her, see what happens but if she asks why you're there, you have a legitimate excuse. maybe she will talk to you, maybe not - but don't stop living your life just because of her. go and have fun! i hope your friend's team wins. :-)
2007-03-27 15:42:17 · answer #10 · answered by bnm4infinity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋