Okay.. I'm 32 and I've had very few boyfriends... I've never been in love AND I have never even had an orgasm! my whole life everyone tells me how attractive I am... yet I cannot relate to any of the men I meet... ??? Are there other girls like this?
2007-03-27 08:34:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im not trying to be mean, but have you seen a therapist?
2007-03-27 08:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know of any. I would have to say the problem is not you so much as the men you meet. However in as much as everyone tells you how attractive you are, do you believe them and do you believe it yourself? I believe you want to have a boyfriend and that you want to be in love AND very much want have an orgasm. You have to like yourself to get some of these things. I can understand moments of despondency over your situation, but if you want to get out of the "hole" you are in, the best thing to do is stop digging and also to find a better make of men.
2007-03-27 16:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's related with your conscience. I'm a male have seen many attractive girls and even If i tell them upfront that 'you are looking beautiful', some takes it lite, as if I was trying to flirt them. But I never cared, Beauty is to adore, adoring is the quality one should possess by birth. Its not adapted or aquired by experience.
Yes there are lot of girls like this.
First you should try to differentiate who is trying to flirt and who is true. Then accept it or reject it. To me in both the cases, it impacts your inner mind and you will start thinking about it at nights..
But discard the one trying to flirt or take it easy, accept the one which is true. You can have orgasm with one who is true. There is nothing wrong about it in my humble opinion.
Beyond these all, you know how you are and what you are.
Equate your inner feelings about yourself with what others say.
Then you easily find out and keep smiling : -)
Just my thoughts...take it easy...
2007-03-27 15:49:11 · answer #3 · answered by muth g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom, she's 46, treated the one good man(my dad) she had like crap. Dated all losers just like now(her boyfriend) and she doesn't like sex, so I assume she hasn't had the real deal, but still managed to have four kids which you can do with out having an orgasm. And she's bitter half the time. True Story!
But you seem different, so be patient, who knows, you may be waiting for the best!
Krazy Libra
2007-03-27 15:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as far as the orgasm thing goes its pretty common for women to have never had them while having sex. Most men suck so unless you get a good one I can understand how it is hard to relate to them I had the same problem before I met my husband.
2007-03-27 15:39:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that, but I would have to lean towards Linda on this one about being a lil too picky, or not trying new things. but I dont know you on a personal level, or what you look like, but I'm sure you'll find someone that's good for you. shoot me an email I'll talk to you. Lowrit00@yahoo.com have a good afternoon, ttyl
2007-03-27 15:45:46 · answer #6 · answered by GREG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only to the boyfriends thing...
I've had very few boyfriends...Only 1 serious one and I'm only 26...Loved once and it was him...
I don't have a problem dating , but do have a problem dating idiots...but I think that's my fault cause I pick them...LOL
Don't worry, he'll come around.
2007-03-27 15:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl, never having an orgasm is your fault, you don't need a man for that ;)
2007-03-27 15:42:07 · answer #8 · answered by Cybele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love how the first guy who answers, says she needs therapy. Wow... men could NEVER handle being a woman! ha
2007-03-27 16:01:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you attracted to men?
Maybe you should try yourself and see what works for you, then show your next partner how to do it.
maybe your stressing too much on it.
2007-03-27 15:39:33 · answer #10 · answered by my_thoughts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋