2007-03-27 08:33:33 · 38 answers · asked by Joseph 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men who get sex on a regular basis are more confident in themselves then those that are not. Women can sense this and it attracts them. It is also said that a person who gets alot of sex gives off a certain pheramone that attracts the opposite sex, I do not know if this has been proven, however.
2007-03-27 08:40:17 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some men that do not get laid choose not to because of their personal ethics, They seem to present a challenge for women that are craving attention in a bad way.(Home wreckers, Sluts and busy bodies) They should respect what they see and aspire the same discipline for themselves. The others that don't either lack confidence or do not have a healthy relationship with their mother.
Those who lack confidence lack self esteem, the self-esteem that is missing was not instilled by the 1st woman in their life. She was either, very controlling, fearful or abusive. When the one they are supposed to turn to abused a him, they begin to believe the perception of the person he looks up to.
Those men who are afraid of rejection are the ones that have been rejected, controlled and abused by their own mother. That type of personality is not attractive. It's ironic because it works the opposite way for women (even the attractive ones) they sleep with any man that gives them the attention their father ignored. They are unstable, not trustworthy and emotional. They seek to connect themselves with the esteem that they are lacking. They do not know who to give they only take, Take money, Affection and waist time.
Women are naturally the emotional half of humanity, they are the ones designed by God to nurture and instill morality. When a woman lacks those qualities it horrifies a man without confidence, he's terrified by what he can't control. The man with confidence can attract any woman. If he lacks morals this behavior can destroy him. Turn him into a whore-munger. Once that happens he's on his way to more destructive behaviors. A man lacking morals with confidence is a dangerous a person. A man with Confidence & Ethics is a worthy leader.
Last word, When a man is balanced he can show his emotions without loosing her respect. When a woman is balanced she can face disagreement without getting emotional gaining his respect.
A healthy relationship trades each strength and becomes each other.
To get to that point both have to accept we all bring baggage to accept, correct and love the flaws away. This is why it’s very important to leave Sex out of the equation until the relationship has matured because it only creates more baggage.
Society is not structured like this anymore so it takes our own personal responsibility to achieve this, If you want to contribute to a better world.
2007-03-27 10:46:15 · answer #2 · answered by Ophiuchus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you a dude who is asking that. base of your question, you either really young pretending to be older or you a virgin.
Im a dude and what i say is not true but base off some female friends saying and a little common sense.
Who doesnt want an attractive partner. Most girls wants experience and looks. Media on tv shows the people who attract to them most gets laid but in reality anybody can get laid to anybody. Looks have no play in it.
2007-03-27 08:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by Chi Town Playa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think some women think that just because a guy is attractive, they are good in bed, by experience, I find that that is not 100% so.
Most men that are confident in their natural looks are more confident in bed and are more interested in satisfying their partner than flexing muscles.
2007-03-27 08:39:13 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What group to you fall in. These attractive men tend to have million dollar bodies and 2 cent brains. Who's happy now?
2007-03-27 09:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably coming across as being confident and seems to know what he wants. I also think there is a point that most women see a man like that as a challenge and want the chance to try and tame him down a little.
2007-03-27 08:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by butterfly_2blue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They aren't attractive because they are getting laid, they are getting laid because they are more attractive
2007-03-27 08:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by ryee40007 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
In my opinion it is becaue they are nice to look at. My man is not the finest piece of DNA walking this earth but he is MINE. Just keep in mind that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I prefer a man that is not" finer than wine" but I don't want him butt ugly either. "Pretty boys" are in my opinion to good to be true and because they have the looks they will treat a woman any kind of way because he knows he can always find another one to replace her.
2007-03-27 09:12:21 · answer #8 · answered by heavenly28001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's a true statement. However, I would think that men that are sexually active are more confident and confidence is attractive to women.
2007-03-27 08:38:06 · answer #9 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They are not! Anyone that is attracted to another woman's man and acts on it has the lowest self esteem. If he will do you while sleeping with her.... he won't be faithful to you either. One hopes you see the real dilemma here which is why do some women have self esteem that is lower than their shoes.
2007-03-27 08:37:19 · answer #10 · answered by QueenBean 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋