I like this guy and i know that he's attracted to me 2 but he says he cant be with me becuz im fat. I weigh 125 pounds. Come on.Its just a lil baggage
2007-03-27 08:32:49 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Every time i like a guy and i think he likes me back theres a problem. Im not small enough. I weigh between 125-130 and some guys think thats fat. Not that all guys think this way. Whats wrong with a lil extra baggage?
2007-03-29 08:53:45 · update #1
Those of us who care more about personality than simple looks have no problems with that.
2007-03-27 08:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by Weatherman 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
125 pounds? C'mon! That is a perfect weight! Guys 85% of the time just think about how THEY'LL look walking around with you. And you know what? I think it's good that you aren't stressing over your "lil baggage." If I were a guy, I wouldn't want my girlfriend to be too skinny. I would want a little meat on her bones. Maybe you should try to convince this guy that you ARE good enough, and can still look good. But don't go too far. Even though I'm still young, I know that I can't change myself to make guys happy, and like me.
But anyways, good luck, and I hope this guy overcomes hs stupidity.
2007-03-27 08:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by Mɑrisɑ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're fat weighing 125 pounds than I'm skinny weighing 180pds and that guys is just a sorry, picky loser and wants to date a pole. Find better! No real man worries about something so small like that.
Krazy Libra
2007-03-27 08:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all, honey. 125 pounds is NOT fat, and that guy is an idiot. If all he can focus on is your weight, then he's a loser and not the right guy for you.
To answer your question, not all guys only go after skinny girls. I used to believe this too, until I found the man of my dreams who likes girls with a little meat on their bones. You will find your perfect man too. I can tell you for certain that it is not him. You'll know it's the right guy when he loves you for who you are, looks past anything that you might considerable physical flaws, and falls in love with your attitude. This guy, and guys like him, are not good for your self-esteem. Avoid them.
2007-03-27 08:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by redhead 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He's a prick! & you really shouldn't be with someone who judges by apperance...nothing good ever comes from that...You need to find your self a guy who with like you for you! Inside & out, baggage & all! To be quit honest is he insane! 125lbs? It doesn't matter what heighth you are, no one with that weight is fat....Hell I'm around 130! & I'm 5'7...I have my self some curves & some boobs! Guys like something to hold on too! Aha j/k but seriously, Find your self a guy who will like you for you! Simple as that.
2007-03-27 08:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
125 is not fat. Take him off your list of potentials and move on. Don't waste the right guys time with the wrong guys opinion making you crazy.
2007-03-27 08:38:24 · answer #6 · answered by NakasEvilTwin 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok so he wont date you because you are a little out of shape, this mostly shows you that he likes girls who can take care of themselves physically because if you cant take care of your weight, how are you gonna take care of his weight if you are the one taking care of the food.
and about the BBW thing mentioned earlier
Would you date a guy who only wanted to date you B/c your fat? my sister used to be over 400, and now that shes down by almost 300 lbs her exboyfriend wanted her to stop losing weight b/c he liked her fat and not skinny (still a little chubby) needless to say she refused to gain weight back and he dumped her. Now shes healthy physically and can get into a healthy emotional relationship.
2007-03-27 09:07:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we will and do
why won't women date guys that are less than perfect?
I've got a little baggage on the belly, and I've been told point blank, if you'd lose30 pounds, I'd go out with you... well, no, as you're too shallow for me..
it is reality, thank the media for programming the masses...
2007-03-27 08:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by bilko_ca 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well dear I would not waste your time on him, if he doesn't like you the way you are then he is not worth knowing. Imagine there would be no romances at all if that's all that men wanted flat stomachs. He sounds very shallow to me and I am sure you are very pretty the way you are. I know loads of women who don't have flat stomachs and they have very good looking men at their sides. Dump him and go for someone who loves you for who you are.
2007-03-27 08:38:36 · answer #9 · answered by Dr Paul D 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guys will date a girl who doesn't have a flat stomach. There's a whole sect of people into BBW's or Big Beautiful Women. Maybe THAT guy won't date you, but a hundred others will.
2007-03-27 08:36:06 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
125 lbs.!?!?!?!?! Okay I am lost here. He actually told you that??? He would be history after saying that. IGNORE the hell out of him just so he can wonder why you are not interested in his crazy a$$ anymore. When he tries to hook up with you tell him that you don't date stupid a$$ holes.
2007-03-27 08:41:43 · answer #11 · answered by teri d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋