please help me to fix myself?

Question

I'm 17 years old guy I have no girlfriend and I never have one.
I'm quite good at study.
Generally I'm not very outgoing, shy, I don't talk too much, I don't have many friends
I'm fed-up with the way my life is going and I want to change it.
I recently missed the girl that she could be the perfect for me.
please help me to change myself and to maybe to have a girlfriend

How? to talk to girls

How? to talk to girls???

Answer 1

Start talking to girls.

If you are not used to talking to girls, start with your sister's friends.

Or a cousin, or possibly the girl next door no matter what age she is, just to get some confidence.

Once you become comfortable talking to and being around girls (it wont take long) it will then be time to go out and meet the girls of your dreams.

Remember it is a numbers game and they are not always going to be receptive.

But all you need is one. Right? ( At least to start with. )

Approach as many girls as you can and make sure you are attracted to them because it will increase the odds that they will be attracted to you.

Just say "What's Up?" And be sure to look her in the eyes and smile.

At that point the ball is in her court and she will most likely
respond back.

If she Does......

Just talk about whatever she wants to talk about.

( Resist the urge to talk about your studies,. she will be able to tell how smart you are by your self confidence.)

If she Doesn't............

Don't worry about it, smile again and move on to the next one.

Once you find a girl you would like to go out with:

You can ask her if there are any movies she would like to see.
and if she says something like she hates movies (worst case scenario).

Then ask her what she likes to do and try to find common interests then ask if you can walk her home or to class.

If you have a car take her somewhere she would like to go.

If you do not own a car. Tell her about the car you want to get someday, (make it a good one like a vintage Mustang, Corvette or foreign sports car.) Be clear on the year, color, and size of engine, right down to the pinstripes. Paint a picture of it in her head with words (NOT PAINT !) and tell her all the places you want to take her in your car when you get it.

I know the hardest part of this is those first few words, but take it from me no girl will ever go out with you until you get over any shyness and become confident.

I sure hope this helps you dude.

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