My ex boyfriend and I talked on and off for 2 years and then dated VERY seriously for a year after that. He gave me a ring... we basically lived together. We are from a small town and basically we got tore apart.We had a bad break up and i feel so bad when he told me he cried himself to sleep over me. I still love him as a person.But he won't talk to me !! at all.. he hates me being around our friends and everything. Is he doing this because he hates me, or just becuase our relationship didn't work out and he got hurt?
he talks really bad about me, and it hurts me. We also have been broken up for alomost a year now!! we both have moved on, but i want him to be my friend.. and he won't??
why won't he.. he use to love me to the point where he would give me a ring, and not he doesn't want to talk to me. Please help me understand why he does this?
WHY DOES HE ACT LIKE I DON'T MEAN ANYTHING TO HIM.. DO I NOT AFTER ALL WE HAD, AFTER HIM CRYING!!!!
DO I REALLY NOT MEAN ANYTHING TO HIM ?
2007-03-27 08:24:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you obviously hurt him really badly. he can't look at you or be his friend. just leave him alone and let him move on without you.
2007-03-27 08:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by lilmama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is still hurt and he is still developing closure, weather he moved on or not it sounds like he really did love you alot. So just chalk it up and take it as a lost. You should of thought about all this before hand. I mean what would you do. I don't think it's right that he talks bad about you but just forget about it. Make new friends or something. If he wants to be your friend he'll call you or approach you when he's ready. But for now leave him alone.
2007-03-27 15:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by misscancer10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be friends with someone who talks bad about you? If he can't stand you being around the friends you both share, that's his problem not yours. He needs to grow up. You obviously want to sort out the mess, and he doesn't. If that's the way he is going be, then don't lose sleep over him. You probably mean something to him, which is why he's kicking himself for losing you. Try to meet with him in a private, quiet place where you can't be disturbed. It would be best too, to turn off your cellphones (if you have one) so as not to be interrupted. Good luck, hope it all works out!
2007-03-27 15:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by Poet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to do things that will help him get over you. I can relate to how he feels. I was with my ex for 5 years and the only way that I could move on was by getting away from him and his friends who because my friends. We had great times for 5 years!!! But we also had bad times.
It was very hard for me to be around them and one person that I thought was going to be the one...
2007-03-27 15:35:42 · answer #4 · answered by lotsofluv007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was hurt by you. he wants nothing to do with you since you hurt him... even though it was a year ago it doesnt matter. you broke his heart.
most relationships don't work out with the two being friends. either they try it, start dating again and break up again and never talk again... or they just don't talk again.
you have to get over the fact that he doesn't want to be friends with you. not everyone on earth wants to be friends with you.
2007-03-27 15:30:48 · answer #5 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this answer is so f'ing simple it makes me pee blood!
sweetheart...here's the key statement: he's you EX-BOYFRIEND!!!!!!!!
why the F should you give two F's about what he does and says? why the F should you be talking with him after you broke up with him? why the F are you even still communicating with him?
was his d!ck that big? do you miss sucking it? what is it? get over him. he cries himself to sleep? is he a *****? cuz the only people i know that cries themselves to sleep are b!tches.
why the F do you still want to talk to him? why the F do you care if he hates you? wow, he was gonna give you a ring ! big F'ing deal. y'know how much a ring costs? $20...your 'love' costs $20? c'm'over here baby...i'll give you $20 for your love as well!
sounds like you have not 'moved on'...get over him, get over your 'friends' opinions...believe me, your friends are losers...i will gladly say that to their faces...
your quotes:
WHY DOES HE ACT LIKE I DON'T MEAN ANYTHING TO HIM..
remember? did you forget? he's your EX-BOYFRIEND!!!
DO I NOT AFTER ALL WE HAD, AFTER HIM CRYING!!!!
DO I REALLY NOT MEAN ANYTHING TO HIM ?
yes, you should mean nothing to him...he should regard you as a used tissue and you should regard him as a d!ckhead.
get over the romeo and juliet tragedy. get over the silly soap opera sh!t. there are a lot of guys who dont cry like a ***** that is more than happy to care care of your needs! remember, i can give you $20 worth of luvin'. it'll be fun for you too!!! really fun!!!
2007-03-27 15:27:21 · answer #6 · answered by jkk k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is just mad at himself because he lost you. He is still not over you. You know when you get mad you can say things that you later regret. Thats what he is going through with a brokenheart. It will heal, have no worries. Thats simply it. If you still have the feeling he has for you. Contact with him, better on the phone than through email, tell him how much he means to you.
2007-03-27 15:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by Chi Town Playa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all sweetie, he's your ex for a reason. By the way he's acting it seems to be for a good reason.
Yes he is hurting and yes he is being unfair to you. As much as you'd like to be his friend it seems he's proving more of a reason for you to cut him lose.
Don't worry about him because he doesn't really care about you.
2007-03-27 15:53:59 · answer #8 · answered by clarnely_2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cried over ur break up,he must have loved u y did u break up wit him,if a guy cries over ur break up then ur f-in crazy!
2007-03-27 15:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by bunny killa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't want to be your friend. Just leave him alone. That is the only thing you can do. By wanting to be his friend, you are only putting salt into his wounds.
2007-03-27 15:28:12 · answer #10 · answered by Jack Chedeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋