my boy friend found out about me and he seemed ok with it at first but now he is tring to keep me from doing any spells at all he is always in the way and makes it to where i cant do anything
2007-03-27 08:23:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Witches. LOL!
2007-03-27 08:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by Some Dude 4 · 0⤊ 9⤋
I'm a witch, and happily married to another witch. We're even expecting our first child. I've also known many other witchy people who are in very loving and long-lasting relationships. So yeah, it's just as possible for a witch to be in a real relationship than it is for anyone else.
Remember, just because we know a few, little trade secrets of nature doesn't make us any better or any worse than anyone else. We're all human.
As for your boyfriend, he sounds like a control freak. Get away from him as soon as possible. You deserve better than to be treated like a piece of property. Don't let anyone change who you are or who you want to be.
2007-03-27 15:34:20 · answer #2 · answered by Joa5 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have a wonderful relationship with my husband of 28 years, so yes, it is possible. I completely agree with another answer, that he is a control freak. And honey, he will never change. So if you don't want to bend to the point of breaking to do what he wants I suggest you move on. You might try telling him this and he might lighten up, but don't count on it. It is obvious that he is afraid, maybe you could find out why. If his fears are alleviated things might get better, but again, don't count on it.
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2007-03-27 16:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by Enchanted Gypsy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a witch and yes I do have a girlfriend, but she does not know i'm pagan and a witch..talk about a rock and a hard place eh?
anyhow to answer your question..he does not love you at all, your "faith and religon" which is eather pagan or wiccan comes first. bend him over..lift your foot and kick him in the @***, OR you can sit him down and talk to him about it...tell him how you feel and try to work it out..if its not to be...then its not to be.
Theres many guys out there for you dear.
hmmm better keep my own advice on this one as well lmao...
2007-03-27 15:39:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a control freak. if he can't accept you, move on. it is definitely possible for a witch to have a relationship, i had one when i was a witch, and my two teachers were a married couple. i don't even see how the two would correlate.
2007-03-27 15:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by Ember Halo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pagan. Married 18 yrs to an Agnostic.
Seems like he's insecure. You should discuss this with him directly. If he still wants to act like that, then I would have to say the chances of that relationship surviving is very slim.
2007-03-27 15:29:34 · answer #6 · answered by Kithy 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
If you are not messing with his will then he cant mess with yours. Im not talking about spells either, What I mean is if you dont control him then should he be able to control you? If he dosent respect your choices then is he worth keeping around?
2007-03-27 15:57:00 · answer #7 · answered by I Smoke Cigarettes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't respect you and your actions, is he worth keeping around? His disrespect for your magickal practice might be an indicator that he will disapprove of other things you do. You run the risk of not living freely if you cave into him.
Be careful and evaluate the situation--and think with your head, not your heart on this!
2007-03-27 15:28:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a communication problem (btwn you and him).
Talk to him and you might find that it's not what you think.
2007-03-27 16:15:17 · answer #9 · answered by limendoz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Wiccan and I'm happily married. My husband is a christian.
2007-03-27 16:16:22 · answer #10 · answered by Belisama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby (Black Dragon here on R&S) and I are both Witches.
I recommend that you seek a boyfriend who is more tolerant.
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2007-03-27 15:35:24 · answer #11 · answered by Praise Singer 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋