I am so intrested in this really hot guy it's not even funny anymore. He's hot I mean everything about him. I used to talk to him once in a while. But I ended up just getting shy and it kinda went blah from there. It was an occasional Hello, How are you. Along with whistles, and yells. It was really cute. But the problem was I was 15 at the time. I am now 21. Ok will be in August. And he's 31. Anyways. I really like him and would love to be able to talk to him. The problem is he is always with Freinds and I don't even feel comfortable walking in front of his house with everyone up there. (Like I said I am shy) I don't know I guess just really really shy. I am madly in love with this man. His blue eyes have a hold on me no like no other man has.
Any suggestion would work I'm desperate. Where I live its down the street from the school and he lives right next door to the school. You walk in front of his house and go in behind the fence and your in the school yard. He's killing me *pouts
2007-03-27 08:14:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just look sexy and smile at him..i am sure he will smile back and start chatting.
2007-04-04 07:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you like him and not just his looks? At 21 to 31, its a large age difference. Add on that this is a long time crush.
If you really need to talk to him to get it out of the system, the easiest way would be to start by letters. You know his address and I'm assuming you know his name as well. Write him a letter telling him that you would like to get to know him better and then mail it to him.
Even if he is dating, I'm sure he'll be flattered and if he's a nice guy, he will at the least return your letter with another letter or say hi to you the next time you pass his house.
I would think carefully before confessing your love though. I am not sure you really know what you feel and I think what you are going through is a crush. However, good luck, and I hope you can both be at the least, friends.
2007-03-27 15:25:54 · answer #2 · answered by TMemories 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you dont feel comfortable talking to him when his friends are over get his phone number, call him one day and tell him to meet you like in his back yard or some where he can sneak away from his friends for a min. then just talk to him tell him how you feel maybe not the whole madly in love thing dont wanna scare any one off but just be honest tell him you would like to date or w/e or hell if you are too nervous to say anything just kiss him n walk off, then maybe he will start to take action. lol
good luck
2007-04-04 13:21:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
So you say he's always with Friends. Are these all males? Maybe he's gay. Have you ever seen him with a woman?
Why hasn't he made a move to be with you?
Just be careful. Sounds like you're headed for a heart break.
Plenty of other guys around.
2007-03-27 15:21:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
21 and 31 that's cool it means he is starting to be mature and not a kid anymore,remember men got mature later than women.
2007-04-04 13:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ay hes 31 and your 21 thats a pretty big age difference i dont think you can hook up wit this guy
2007-03-27 15:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by Ben Dover 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋