my niece boyfriend the father of her baby. is living with us. and so far he is treating her abd me with respect. but when i go off to work he hits her and beats her. how i know is because she has bursies all over her body. i dont know if i should kick him out or let him stay here in my house and take him to work with me so he dosnt hurt her. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-27 08:02:07 · 11 answers · asked by god's child 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
shes 15 and he is 17
2007-03-27 08:17:53 · update #1
I'd call the police. Abuse is illegal.
2007-03-27 08:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hitting anyone is not tolerable - no matter what. If you can afford (even through a friend) to set up cameras to record this and get him charged, do this. Again, no one person deserves to be hit.
2007-03-27 15:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by musiclive_canada 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please kick him out!!! Please. No one likes an abuser. I am one of them. He should be treating her like a princess or a queen, not beating on her like a master to a slave. What if someone was beating on him all the time and saying nothing to no one about it. He needs to go to a counseling session or treatment to stop the abuse.
2007-03-27 15:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by ralph30year 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The boyfriend needs to go.
Take your neice to the hospital for treatment... physical abuse and domestic violence is a crime.
Your neice may feel helpless to help herself.
The baby could be next. He could kill it!
2007-03-27 15:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your neice needs to admit to you that this is actually happening. When that happens, you can have an honest dialogue with her about how she needs to protect herself and her baby from an abuser.
2007-03-27 15:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by SodaLicious 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
kick him out. before its too late and the situation gets worse
2007-03-27 15:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by Angie O 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think you should just kick him out because he Will end up hurting her. well good luck
2007-03-29 14:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should kick him out if she kno u kno she'll want to kno y u haven't done anything yet cuz she is to scared to do anything herself about it...
so jus talk to her about and see where it goes from there
2007-03-27 15:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by crazysmith187 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would STOP that before it gets really bad. that's very important to do something before she gets really hurt or dead
2007-03-27 15:07:22 · answer #9 · answered by michelle a 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
report his abuse to the police!!!
2007-03-27 15:06:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋