I am 21 and have only been married 2 months, but my sex drive is next to nothing. I am on the pill, could that be it? Sometimes I really am just too tired after a day at work. Any help?
2007-03-27 08:00:32 · 15 answers · asked by Amber 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
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2007-03-28 13:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by Sydney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same trouble for years, upon reexamining I realized it started when I started taking the pill. So yes, its a definite possibility. I decided to try stopping a few months ago and its gotten SO much better. I just wish I hadnt wasted all those years, I thought it was something wrong with me, it turns out it was something I was doing to myself. Honestly, I felt much better after 1 cycle. Invest in some condoms and try going off for a few months and see if maybe thats what it is.
Good luck!
2007-03-27 12:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being tired is one thing. No one wants to do it being pooped.
But being newlywed & 21 tells me there's other things. Do you enjoy it when you have sex?
Yes, your Pill could be causing some of the problem. Call your doc asap. Discuss ALL of this with him/her.
2007-03-27 09:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So many things can contribute to a low sex drive. Stress, depression, body image issues, sexual abuse, hormones (including birth control) and antidepressants. Try to pinpoint what the issue may be and try talking to your gynecologist. Maybe he or she can prescribe a different medication. I had the same problem a while back and once I switched medications, things improved. Good luck :)
2007-03-27 16:30:45 · answer #4 · answered by Kathryn M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones can make your sex drive go all wonky so it might be partially the pills. Do you just have no sexual desire or are you just too tired or what?
2007-03-27 08:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a nurse and need more info.. What was your drive before? What's your partners libido like? Fatigue is a realistic problem. So is the pill. Does your partner want sex and you don't? what's the problem?
2007-03-27 08:06:29 · answer #6 · answered by getnursemindi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is some scientific advice for you. No the pill does not affect your sex drive. You are female and you are only 21. Women don't hit their sexual peak until they are in their late twenties. Bad part about that is men hit theirs at about 18 and are heading out of it by the time we are just getting into ours.
Sad but true. That's why you see so many women with younger men.
2007-03-27 08:12:17 · answer #7 · answered by kauai_lvr 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
maybe your not sexually excited by your husband so when you do have sex with him it will have to be because he want to kind've like making yourself do it to satisfy him. but i learned from a sex class that alot of your emotions are in your vagina so maybe you don't feel for him like you think you do alot of people think that your feeling are within the heart but they're not just give it a little thought and no it don't have anything to do with the pill not that i know of though
2007-03-27 08:08:39 · answer #8 · answered by brown eyes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not everyone has a high sex drive, mine's been low my whole life.
2007-03-27 10:00:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pill can definitely be the problem. See your doc.
2007-03-27 08:08:36 · answer #10 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋