I'm a pretty shy girl and my boyfriend told me recently he thinks I should be the one to initiate sex sometimes. I dont know what that means or what to do? I've never had to do that before. I'm pretty reserved so what are some simple suggestions that I can try without embarassing myself?
2007-03-27 07:52:45 · 3 answers · asked by socal_rachel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can slide on his lap while he's watching TV, or you can just take his hand and put it someplace where you would like him to touch. (i'm not going to get too specific, whenever I do I get in trouble with Y/A) but you get the idea. Or whisper something sexy in his ear, or kiss him while rubbing on a body part of his. If you'd like more ideas just send me an email or something, we can chat. You'll be the initiator in no time !! LOL
2007-03-27 08:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by nikkid6910705 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he means is that he wants you to be the one to suggest that you want to have sex with him. It's not something that you really have to do in a specific way, there are a lot of ways. You can try a seductive look, or initiating a kiss, or touching him... Just show him that you do want him. Sometimes guys can be nervous that the girl they are with does not want to have sex, and when you start it sometimes, it takes a lot of stress off of them. Don't worry about embarrassing yourself! If you are comfortable enough with him to have sex, you should be comfortable enough to initiate it, and he will love it!
2007-03-27 14:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is easy:
Ease yourself into his lap, give him a good deep kiss, and slowly pull his shirt off. The engine will rev up, right there.
2007-03-27 14:56:04 · answer #3 · answered by Icewomanblockstheshot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋