I am a college freshman, and I have a major crush on this classmate. I think she is a total package. She has the prettiest eyes i've ever seen, she is very intelligent, and she is pretty nice. I never felt attracted to a girl this strongly, but I sense that she is not that into me. I think she somehow knows that I like her. Oh well. Lately I have been trying quite hard to get over her. I try to keep myself busy, but I have to admit that I keep thinking of her. It is so unfortunate. I don't think I am an undatable guy. I am not sure if I'm handsome, but I am ripped (not bragging or being narcisstic but it's true). I am 5'11 and weigh 180, so appearancewise I think I'm alright. I work hard and treat ladies nicely. I am not that great of a talker, so I guess that is my most critical weakness. Oh well. Some friends of mine tell me that I should be persistent to win her heart, but I don't see that coming anytime soon. Cant find someone else as of now. I need some useful advice. Thanks.
2007-03-27 07:43:23 · 9 answers · asked by What Wtasdcvg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get over her by being a great you. Enjoy your friends and your life. See her for what she is, not part of your life, and remember fondly that you would have said yes to her. If you like you and learn to enjoy being happy alone....alone will not last long. Some nice girl will grab you for her own.
2007-03-27 07:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by NakasEvilTwin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that, but I ended up hurting myself. If honestly think she is the one for you, try talking to her, or invite her to get a pizza or watch a movie, or both. If you don't fell any chemestry, then at least you can say that you tried, I mean, what's the worst that can happen? She says no? So what!! If that's the worst that can happen then what are you worried about!! You sound nice and considerate, so don't worry about her not liking you or anything.
Put in another question on Y! Answers about improving your speaking skills and you'll have everything that you need.
P.S. Tell your friend you have to be at least 35 years of age to become the president.
A college kid doesn't know that. HAH!!!!!
2007-03-27 07:56:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all im a girl so this is what i think... girls dont care about looks at least the smart ones dont... If she doesnt like you then thats her problem... sometimes things just dont click right way, butit doesnt mean your not a good person... Getting over her might be a little hard, but it is ok it takes time. you never know she might like someone else so thats why she doesnt like you... but the other day i got a fwd that said some1 likes you that you dont even know exists well that is very true!!! So keep your chin up;....HOPE THIS HELPS... if you need any advice at all email me at advicegiver900@yahoo.com im here to help!
2007-03-27 07:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by Advice Giver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well have you even tried to get to know her better? Sounds as if you are assuming she is not into you and have already given up. Talk to her, you have a lot of opportunities to see her being that you two are classmates. Don't just assume she is not interested. You will never know until you give her a chance to know you better.. Even if at first she feels not that into you, she just might change her mind after getting to know you. Can't know unless you try. Best of luck to you!
2007-03-27 07:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have not made your feelings known, you will never know how she feels or not. The next time you guys are leaving class, just up next to her and say "there's a great movie (make sure you know of a good movie playing) playing this weekend at (name a local theatre). Would you like to go?" This will let you know once and for all what's up and how to proceed. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-03-27 07:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by tersey562 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
O.k,i think that you should at least let her know how you feel,youre not that great of a talker so here's what you do(it might sound corny but trust me on this one)Write her a letter and let her know how you feel,if she's not into you well then just ask her to be friends,I'm sure that she'd say yes and who knows when you get to know each other better she might want to be more than friends......................
2007-03-27 07:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by Crazilicous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't find someone else cause your too busy sobbing. Ho's are like new clothes, once you sport' em you wish you never bought em. She wants what she can't have, and you made it obvious she can have you. Go out and meet a bunch of new girls.. get numbers.. new girls grow on you and you'll forget that chick.. You will meet several more girls over the years that attract you like her... you are only delaying the inevitable. peace
2007-03-27 07:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by mattymomostl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice approach her say hi and tell her what you think and ask her out for a cup of coffee or whatever she likes and then you will know the truth and if she isnt intersted in you then it will be easier to get over it but you can still be her friend
2007-03-27 07:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dunno, at least you see your crush, i see mine around three times a year. By standing back you can't really go anywhere. Just be her friend, maybe then your feelings will be taken over by friendship. Godd Luck
2007-03-27 07:50:00 · answer #9 · answered by Nish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋